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Maun Vrat

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What is silence?

Generally we tend to think that silence is the absence of noise.  Maun Vrat literally means a vow to keep silent. For spiritual growth it is essential that one’s speech must be pure. To acquire purity of speech the practice of silence is important. Hindu religious texts commend maun-vrat for this purpose.
“Do not speak unless you can improve the silence” - Proverb
“Do not speak unless you can improve the silence”
– Proverb

Is silence mere noiselessness?

Can absence of noise be called silence?
But what do you actually hear when there is no noise?

You may hear your heartbeat, you may hear rustling leaves, you may hear subtle sounds that you usually do not perceive. Some seem to hear a primal sound, a primal buzz, as is spoken of in the Vedas: ‘Aum’, the very first, the eternal sound, from which all sound and all creation arises.

Silence itself cannot be perceived. You are silence, the silence of your heart.

This silence that you are, is a borderless heart, all inclusive and all pervading. This silence is the beloved One, the abode of peace and love.

It is amazing how eloquent could silence be. And humans, it seems, have an intimate connection with it. It keeps coming to us in many mysterious ways. Somewhere deep down, in the farthest recesses of our consciousness, we have a deep connection with it. We are unable to understand it or reach it, probably because between silence and us we have erected multi-dimensional walls. We almost try to deny silence, which is the core of our being, even defy it. In fact, most of us seem to be quite uncomfortable with noise. We seem to fight silence, even defeat it, as we announce our arrival in this world with a loud, piercing wail.Just as we have to go through the heart of darkness to see the flaming light, we have to enter the cluttered noisiness of our mind and the world around us to reach where silence alone remains.

But why silence?

According to Yogiraj Nanak, the essence of life is ever flowing and eternal. If we want to express it in its entirety, or even try to do so, we can succeed only to a limited extent. When our senses, mind and intellect fall short of expressing all, another expressive channel called maun (silence) opens up. “If the speaker can communicate through the silence and the listener can listen silently, it is the most powerful means of communication. And in spiritual learning, it plays a dominant role,” he says.
He explains that a quiet communication is most important where two individuals are burdened with different sanskaras (inherited traits, impressions, memories) due to bonding with a particular religion, ethnicity, culture or country. In which case, the connotation of a word or its sentiments remain tied to sanskaras, however subtle the words may be.
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In Yogiraj Nanak booklet, Maun Samvad (Dialogue in Silence), he says: “Life’s essence cannot fully blossom into words. Maun has the essence, which always exists in the present, and is free of ahankar (ego). The speaker’s or the listener’s ego (‘I know this’ and ‘I don’t know this’) always takes him to I-ness instead of Be-ness and Is-ness. Once freed from ego, what remain are purity, beauty and the nectar of peace and solitude. The power of peace thus obtained is so strong that our life within remains unshaken by the storm and stress without. In short, maun calms the mind and thus fills the whole life with peace.”
Says a Vipassana meditator: “Silence is the medium that takes us forward on the journey from the apparent self to the real self. When we are silently observing the body, and observing the mind, this something that is witnessing is silence—the real Self. We are constantly allowing in the garbage through our five doors—the senses—and we are constantly reacting to it. Silence takes us beyond the sense experiences to the real experience.”
Osho [Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, Indian mystic, guru and philosopher] too describes the importance of silence in our lives beautifully: “Only silence can be heard and understood. Words can be heard but only superficially, and can be understood but only intellectually. Silence is heard existentially and is understood from your innermost being. It is a total understanding… Silence means you have put aside the whole furniture of the mind—the thoughts, the desires, the memories, the fantasies, the dreams, you have all pushed aside. You are just looking into existence directly, immediately.
‘‘You are in contact with existence without anything in between you and existence. That is silence. Silence is usually understood to be something negative, something empty, an absence of sound, of noises. This misunderstanding is prevalent because very few people have ever experienced silence. All they have experienced in the name of silence is noiselessness. But silence… is overflowing with a music that you have never heard before, with a fragrance that is unfamiliar to you, with a light that can only be seen with the inner eyes. It is not something fictitious; it is a reality, and a reality which is already present in everyone—just we never look in.

And how can we look in and reach the silence within us, touch the silence of our being?

To reach the real silence, the absolute silence, we need to go beyond the silence of the body, the silence of the heart and finally the silence of the mind. Thus before we merge with eternal silence we shall need to reach, touch and then transcend the silence at the physical, emotional and mental levels.To begin with, allot a time and place to yourself, where once a month, and if possible, once a week (increase the duration and frequency as you move on), observe complete silence. It should be complete in the sense that during that period surrender yourself totally to your intention. Merely keeping mute is not maun vrat.
According to Shama Sharma, who has practised guided spiritual maun off and on, it is more important to keep internal maun rather than external maun. For someone in maun who cannot give up the desire to communicate with the external world and keeps doing it either by sign language or by involvement in other activities, cannot find the bliss that is in real silence. When she recently took a 40-day maun, she would break the silence whenever she felt the real urge to communicate verbally, though such moments were rare. “At such a time my mind would create more noise than my spoken words. So it is better to get over with what’s bugging you and then carry on,” she says.
So if we intend to keep silent for two hours, but all the while we are thinking of what we are going to do for the rest of the day, or what are we going to cook for dinner, or what jobs need to be finished, that is no maun. To reach internal maun, complete withdrawal from the world and from all external experiences, to whatever degree possible, is important.
But again this is only the beginning. Absolute silence is arrived at after successfully crossing over all thought walls, which might seem difficult but practice makes it possible. Silence comes with stillness of the mind and heart alone. Silence is losing self to timelessness.
But why do we need to go into silence? Why do we need to know it or to reach it? Because when we know silence, we shall know ourselves. When we reach silence, we reach the supreme power that is often called God. Silence is shoonya, the no-mind state which every yogi, every sincere sadhak aspires for. Silence springs forth from the ultimate union.

Maun-vrat literally means a vow to keep silent. For spiritual growth it is essential that one’s speech must be pure. To acquire purity of speech the practice of silence is important. It is believed that through silence one is able to achieve one’s desires. One attains the abode of Lord Shiva or Lord Vishnu. Along with maun-vrat it is essential that some time must be spent in offering prayers.

In the Bhagavad Gita,17/16, it is said:

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Silence is placed mid-way between other qualities. It begins with control of the mind. Once the mind is controlled, one becomes friendly. One begins to look kindly towards others. One cuts down on useless speech and thinks more of God. One begins to generate good thoughts.

In the Chanakya Niti, 11/9, it is said:


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Whoever can remain silent everyday for a full year becomes worthy of thousands of years of praise in heaven.

Silence can change the personality of an individual. Through silence a person controls anger and speech. One grows stronger through greater determination and self-confidence. One is more at peace and free of tension. There is conservation of energy and a person experiences greater inner strength.

Contentment of the mind, amiable temperament, silence, religious meditation and good thoughts reflect austerity of the mind.

Shirdi Sai Baba

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Although SaiBaba’s origins are unknown, some Historical researches into genealogies in Shirdi give support to the theory that Sai Baba could have been born in 1835 at Pathri Village. In that village there were a couple named Gangabhavadya and Devagiriamma.

They were worshipers of Lord Shiva and Parvathi. They had no offspring for a long time. They intensified their prayers. Gangabhavadya used to ply boats near the village for a living. One night, when it was raining heavily, Gangabhavadya left his house to take care of the boats, telling his wife that he would not be returning in the night. After the husband had an early meal and left, Devagiriamma ate and went to bed.

At 9 p.m. there was a knock at the door. Devagiriamma opened the door, wondering if her husband had returned. A very old man entered the house. He pleaded, “It is very cold outside. Please permit me, mother, to stay inside.” As a pious woman, she allowed him to stay in the inside verandah and went in after bolting the inner door. She opened the door. The old man said, “I am feeling hungry; give me some food.” Finding that there was no food, the woman mixed some flour with curd and gave it to him. Another knock sounded after some time. When she opened the door, the old man said, “My legs are aching, Mother, will you massage them?”

Devagiriamma went inside, sat in the prayer room and prayed, “O Mother! Why are you testing me like this? What should I do? Should I serve him or refuse?”

Going out of the house by the backdoor, she went in search of someone who could be engaged to render this service. No one was available. Again there was a knock by the old man. At the same time, a woman knocked at the backdoor. She said, “It appears you came to my house and sought some help? I was away at the time. Please let me know what service I should render you?”

Feeling happy that Goddess Parvathi herself had [come to her rescue and] sent the woman in response to her prayers, Devagiriamma sent the newcomer to the verandah to serve the old man and closed the door. The old man and the new woman were none other than Shiva and Parvathi, the Divine couple.

Lord Shiva told Parvathi, “Fulfill the cherished desires of this lady.” Parvathi Shiva replied, “You are Supreme. Please shower your Grace on her yourself.” Shiva said, “I came to test her. You came in answer to her prayers. Hence you must bless her.”

There was a knock at the door again. This time Devagiriamma promptly opened the door because of the presence of another woman. Parvathi and Shiva appeared before her in their divine form. Unable to contain her joy, Devagiriamma fell at their feet. Parvathi then blessed her, “I grant you a son to maintain the lineage and a daughter for kanyadan (a girl to be offered in marriage).” Devagiriamma fell at the feet of Shiva. Shiva said, “I am immensely pleased with your devotion. I shall take birth as your third child.” When Devagiriamma got up, the Divine couple had vanished. Feeling ecstatic by this experience, Devagiriamma eagerly awaited the return of her husband in the morning to relate to him the whole story.
When the husband came home in the morning she related to him all that had happened during the previous night. The husband said, “Devagiri! What is this fanciful tale! It is all a dream. Parvathi and Parameswara appearing before you and giving Darshan! It is pure fantasy!” Gangabhavadya dismissed the whole episode as incredible and fanciful.

As the years passed, Devagiriamma became pregnant and a son was born. A year later a daughter was born. Gangabhavadya was now convinced that the birth of the two children was the result of the blessings conferred by Parvathi and Parameswara. He told his wife, “You had the good fortune (to be blessed by the Divine couple). I did not have that luck.”

Sai_Baba 1When Devagiriamma conceived again, Gangabhavadya began to feel an urge to give up hearth and home and go in search of the Divine couple. He announced to his wife that he was leaving for the forest to do penance. The devoted wife that she was, Devagiriamma decided to follow him, though she was in the ninth month of her pregnancy. After proceeding some distance, she developed labor pains. She delivered a boy. Wrapping the babe in a piece of cloth, she left the child by the forest and followed her husband.

1835

There was in the same village a Sufi fakir. As he was also childless, he took charge of this child and brought him up in his home. The boy stayed in the fakir’s home for four years (1835 to 1839). The fakir passed away in the tide of time. The fakir’s wife, who had lavished great affection on the child, was grief-stricken. To add to her worries, the boy was behaving in a troublesome manner.

Sai_Baba 3His behavior in singing about Allah, Rama and Shiva in a mosque & temple was a puzzle to the public. Members belonging to both the communities went to the fakir’s wife and complained about the boy’s behavior. Unable to deal with this situation the fakir’s wife handed over the boy to a high-souled, pious scholar named Venkusa (Hindu Guru), who was living near her house. The boy stayed in Venkusa’s ashram for 12 years from 1839 to 1851. Venkusa was extremely fond of the boy. In every matter, he used to give priority to the young Boy’s views. Seeing this, in course of time, members of the ashram developed envy towards the boy.

1851

One night, the boy left the ashram. He reached Shirdi, a very small village at the time. He led an ascetic life, sitting motionless under a Neem tree and meditating while sitting in an asana. His presence attracted the curiosity of the villagers and the religiously-inclined such as Mhalsapati, Appa Jogle and Kashinatha regularly visited him, they treated as a Fakir (Saint Baba), while others such as the village children considered him mad.

Some time Baba stood as a beggar and rooming in city called out, “ oh lassie, give me a piece of bread” and spread out his hand to same. In one hand he carried a Tumrel (tin pot) and in the other a zoli or chopadari, i.e., a rectangular piece of cloth. He daily visited certain houses and went from door to door. Whatever things he got in his zole and in the tinpot were mixed together and partaken by baba to his heart’s content. Sometime he collected food thrown in a earthen pot to dog, cat and crows. Rest of the time baba mediating under neem tree.

Sai_Baba 4Some villagers from nearby places used to visit him under the tree and get relief for their ailments. He would take out some leaves, crush them, and give them to the ailing person as a medicine. In this manner, he cured many persons of their illnesses. News of the healing powers spread to all the surrounding villages. As a result a large number of persons used to come to him, receive the crushed leaves from him and get cured of their ailments.

After some time he left the village, then wandering from place to place, to met many saints and fakirs.

Sai_Baba 7After strolling for many years, he reached a place called Dhoopkheda (Aurangabad District). Meanwhile a gentle man name called Chandu Patel making a trip to Aurangabad, he lost his mare. For two long months, he made a diligent search but could get no trace of the lost mare. After being disappointed, he returned from Aurangabad with the saddle on his back. After travelling four Koss and a half, he came, on the way, to a mango tree under the foot of which sat a RATNA (queer fellow). He had a cap on His head, wore Kafni (long robe) and had a “Satka” (short stick) under His arm-pit and He was preparing to smoke a Chilim (pipe). On seeing Chand Patil pass by the way, He called out to him and asked him to have a smoke and to rest a little. The Baba asked him about the saddle. Chand Patil replied that it was of his mare which was lost. The queer fellow or Baba asked him to make a search in the Nala close by. He went and the wonder of wonders! he found out the mare. He thought that this baba was not an ordinary man, but an Avalia (a great saint). He returned to the Baba with the mare. The Chilim was ready for being smoked, but two things were wanting; (1) fire to light the pipe, and (2) water to wet the chhapi (piece of cloth through which smoke is drawn up).

Sai_Baba 5The Fakir took His prong and thrust it forcibly into the ground and out came a live burning coal, which He put on the pipe. Then He dashed the Satka on the ground, from whence water began to ooze. The chhapi was wetted with that water, was then wrung out and wrapped round the pipe. Thus everything being complete, the Baba smoked the Chilim and then gave it also to Chand Patil. On seeing all this, Chand Patil was wonderstruck. He requested the Baba to come to his home and accept his hospitality. Next day He went to the Patil’s house and stayed there for some time. The Patil was a village – officer of Dhoop. His wife’s brother’s son was to be married and the bride was from Shirdi. So Patil made preparations to start for Shirdi for the marriage. The Baba also accompanied the marriage-party. The marriage went off without any hitch, the party returned to Dhoop, except the Baba alone stayed in Shirdi, and remained there forever. That was in the year 1858.

When the marriage – party came to Shirdi, it alighted at the foot of a Banyan tree in Bhagata Mhalsapati’s field near Khandoba’s temple. The carts were loosened in the open court-yard of Khandoba’s temple. The carts were loosened in the open court-yard of Khandoba’s temple, and the members of the party descended one by one, and the Baba also got down. Bhagat Mhalsapati saw the young Baba getting down and accosted Him “YA SAI” (Welcome Sai). Others also addressed Him as Sai and thence-forth he became known as Sai Baba.

Sai_Baba 6The name ‘Sai Baba’ is a combination of Persian and Indian origin; Sāī (Sa’ih) is the Persian term for “holy one” or “saint”, usually attributed to Islamic ascetics, whereas Bābā is a word meaning “father” used in Indian languages. The appellative thus refers to SaiBaba as being a “holy father” or “saintly father”.

Sai Baba began to stay in a deserted Masjid. One Saint named Devidas was living in Shirdi many years before Baba came there. Baba liked his company. He stayed with him in the Maruti temple, in the Chavadi, and some time lived alone. Then came another Saint by name Jankidas. Baba spent most of His time in talking with him, or Jankidas went to Baba’s residence. So also one Vaishya house-holder Saint, from Puntambe by name Gangagir always frequented Shirdi. When he first saw Sai Baba, carrying pitchers of water in both hands, for watering the garden, he was amazed and said openly, “Blessed is Shirdi, that it got this precious Jewel. This man is carrying water to-day; but He is not an ordinary fellow. As this land (Shirdi) was lucky and meritorious, it secured this Jewel.” So also one famous Saint by name Anandnath of Yewala Math, a disciple of Akkalkot Maharaj came to Shirdi with some Shirdi people. When he saw Sai Baba, he said openly, “This is a precious Diamond in reality. Though he looks like an ordinary man, he is not a ‘gar’ (ordinary stone) but a Diamond. You will realize this in the near future.” Saying this he returned to Yewala.

One day Mahalasapati was sitting near Baba and doing some service to him. Mahalasapati was the priest in the Khandoba temple. The Muslims who were opposed to the presence of a Hindu priest near Baba, came with sticks and beat up Mahalasapati. At every stroke, Mahalasapati cried out, “Baba! Baba!”. Each time he shouted the name of Baba, the blow was borne by Baba. Mahalasapati fell to the ground. Baba came out.

Bhagat Mhalsapati jiMuslims had great reverence for Baba. Baba roared at the Muslim crowd, “Saithan! On the one side you worship me and on the other you beat me. Is this devotion!?” Baba was bleeding all over the body. The Muslims saw it and asked Baba who had beaten him. “Did you not beat me? Did you not beat me?” said Baba pointing to several men in the crowd. They said, “We did not come near you at all. We only beat Mahalasapati.”

“Who is in Mahalasapati? I am in him,” declared Baba. “He has surrendered to me and hence all his trouble are mine.”

On hearing this, the Muslims fell at Baba’s feet and craved his forgiveness. Baba then summoned the Hindus and Muslims and told them, “Dear children, you are all the progeny of one mother.” Thereby Baba demonstrated the Fatherhood of God and the Brotherhood of Man. He wanted all differences of caste and creed to be eschewed. What mattered for mankind was the heart. One who is only concerned about his creed (matham) will never discover the Divine (Madhava). You must seek the Divine within you. Baba pointed out that all caste and creed distinctions related only to the body. Therefore, you should seek the Supreme in your inner consciousness.

Sai Baba did not mix and speak with the people. He only gave answers when he was questioned. By day he always sat under the Neem tree, sometimes under the shade of a branch of a Babul tree near the stream at the outskirts of the village. In the afternoon, He used to walk at random and go at times to Nimgaon. There He frequented the house of Balasaheb Dengale. Baba loved Mr. Balasaheb. His younger brother, named Nanasaheb, had no son, though he married a second wife. Balasaheb sent Nanasaheb for taking darshana of Sai Baba, and after some time with His grace, Nanasaheb got a son. From that time onwards, people began to come in numbers to see Sai Baba, and His fame began to spread and reached Ahmednagar; from thence Nanasaheb Chandorkar and Keshav Chidamber, and many others began to come to Shirdi.

Baba was surrounded by His devotees during day; and slept at night in an old and dilapidated Masjid. Baba’s paraphernalia at this time consisted of a Chilim, tobacco, a “Tumrel” (tin pot), long flowing Kafni, a piece of cloth round His head, and a Satka (short stick), which He always kept with Him. The piece of white cloth on the head was twisted like matted hair, and flowed down from the left ear on the back. This was not washed for weeks. He wore no shoes, no sandals. A piece of sack-cloth was His seat for most of the day. He wore a coupin (waist-cloth-band) and for warding off cold he always sat in front of a Dhuni (sacred fire) facing south with His left hand resting on the wooden railing. In that Dhuni, He offered as oblation; egoism, desires and all thoughts and always uttered Allah Malik (God is the sole owner). The Masjid in which He sat was only of two room dimensions, where all devotees came and saw Him. After 1912 A.D., there was a change. The old Masjid was repaired and a pavement was constructed. Before Baba came to live in this Masjid, He lived for a long time in a place Takia, where with GHUNGUR (small bells) on His legs, Baba danced beautifully sang with tender love.

Sai_Baba 8Sai Baba was very fond of lights. He used to borrow oil from shop-keepers, and keep lamps burning the whole night in the Masjid and temple. This went on for some time. The Banias, who supplied oil gratis, once met together and decided not to give Him oil. When, as usual, Baba went to ask for oil, they all gave Him a distinct No. Unperturbed, Baba returned to the Masjid and kept the dry wicks in the lamps. The banias were watching Him with curiosity. Baba took the Tumrel (tin pot) which contained very little (a few drops) of oil, put water into it and drank it and forced it fall in the container. After consecrating the tin-pot in this way, He again took water in the tin-pot and filled all the lamps with it and lighted them. To the surprise and dismay of the watching Banias, the lamps began to burn and kept burning the whole night. The Banias repented and apologized. Baba forgave them and asked them to be more truthful in future.

Sathe was quite an extraordinary person. On reaching Shirdi, he and Narke had Darshan of Baba. On several occasions, looking at Sathe, Baba used to laugh, sing, and make strange gestures. Doubts arouse in Sathe’s mind whether Baba was a real sage or an eccentric person. No one mentioned anything about Sathe to Baba. Sathe and Narke merely went to see Baba and sat in his presence. Baba told Sathe, “Don’t worry about anything. Bodies are like water bubbles. Don’t develop any attachment to the body. Develop your attachment to the dehi (indwelling spirit). Worries are passing clouds. Have courage. Protect your child.”
The last remark had a reference to the fact that Sathe’s wife had died after giving birth to a child. Even Narke had not heard about the survival of this child. On hearing Baba’s words Sathe realised that Baba was not a crazy person but one who was a Trikala Jnani (one who knew the past, the present, and the future). Sathe, who had intended to stay for a short while just to have dracaena of Baba, prolonged his stay by two more days.

Sai_Baba DSC00646Making frequent visits to Shirdi, Sathe was the first to realise that there were no proper amenities at Shirdi for those coming to Baba. The place where he provided residential accommodation for visitor’s [in Shirdi] is Sathe Wada. Sathe was the first to set up apartments at Shirdi.

While serving in this manner, Sathe went again to Shirdi after he began to feel whether there was any purpose in his continuing to earn income and accumulate wealth. On seeing Sathe, Baba smilingly said, “You appear to be losing interest in your job. You are wondering how to dispose of the wealth you have acquired. Why give it to anyone? Use it for a good cause. Build a Koti in Shirdi.” Sathe told Baba, “Swami! I am not a millionaire. How can I build a mansion here?” Baba replied, “Go on doing as much as you can. Why fear when I am here?” Baba encouraged Sathe in this manner.

In due course Sathe’s maternal uncle Kelkar settled down in Shirdi. Sathe used to send funds from Poona and his uncle used to carry on the construction in Shirdi.

He regarded Sathe as his right hand in regard to all matters. Because Baba was keeping Sathe close to him and relying on him for everything.

Appa was the KulkarniAppa was the Kulkarni (revenue official) of the Shirdi village. He was ever immersed in service to Sri Sai Baba. It is the merit of our past lives, which rules our mind and dictates our actions. Now hear what happened once to Appa Kulkarni by the effects of his past Karma. A case was filed against him alleging misappropriation of funds. Only God knows for certain whether he was innocent of the charge or not. The people started vilifying Appa, saying that he was a corrupt man and a troublesome character. Appa heard these gossip of the villagers. He was troubled in his mind whether Sai Maharaj too would hear these rumours and start believing them. The revenue officer superior to Appa issued summons to him to come for an inquiry into the allegations against him. Appa was in a great panic. He was apprehensive that he may not come back to Shirdi again from the inquiry. He went to the Masjid and saluted Baba with reverence. He said, “Oh! Supreme amongst the guru’s, you are a saint. You are verily God. A great calamity has befallen me. Baba, I know that you can command time itself. You know whether this calumny is true or not. Oh powerful one! You are omniscient. You know the past, present and the future. What more can I say than this? You are my mother. I turn to you as my refuge and last resort. Only you can save me and my good name from these infamous allegations.” Appa grasped Baba’s feet and prostate on the ground, started weeping piteously.

“Baba, if something bad happens to me at the inquiry, it will bring you a bad name and disrepute. Oh powerful one, keep this in mind and remove this affliction. When I have Kubera (the God of riches) with me why should I wander abroad for alms form house to house? Do the children who drink the milk from the overflowing udders of that gem amongst cows, the wish fulfilling Kamadhenu, search elsewhere for milk? When the Kalpa Vruksha which fulfils all one’s desires is with one does he seek thorny bushes?

Do the fish leave the vast ocean of milk and seek refuge in mere rivulets? Baba, I have sought shelter at your lotus like feet. You are my mother, my father, please save me from this danger. If you remove me to safety from this danger, all will laud you as the saviour. On the other hand, if I am punished, it will be a black mark on your fame. Sai, please shower your kind, benevolent grace on me.” Appa begged Baba piteously for his kind grace.

Sai_Baba f18_bigBaba’s heart melted. He said, “There is no need for you to worry anymore. Have faith in me! Go from here to Niwasa Village. There, one the bank of the Pravara River, the God who plays the part of the unseen director of this whole universe, has taken the form of Mohini. Go thou there. He, to whom Jnaneswar had surrendered when he wrote, the ‘Bhavartha Deepika’ (commentary on Bhagavat Gita); He who incarnated ten times to rid this world of evil and uphold the dharma; that Allah-I-llahi has assumed form there to save these foolish people steeped in ignorance. Go thou there to him. Salute him with reverence and then go to your superior. The all merciful Allah will protect you. Do not fear.” Appa Kulkarni went to the Mohini Raj on the banks of the Pravara River and after paying obeisance went to where the inquiry was scheduled. He kept repeating the holy name of Sri Sai Baba while answering the questions of his superior. The inquiry concluded. The officer said, “It is my belief that you have been falsely accused in this case. I am of the opinion that you have not misappropriated any money. You are free to go.” Appa turned towards Shirdi and danced with happiness.

Appa praised Baba, “Sai Baba, thou wish fulfilling Kalpa Vruksha of the devotees! Thou the protector of the devotee! Thou abode of dispassion! You have shown great kindness to me. I have succeeded by your grace. You have upheld my honour, Baba, thou great mahatma.” Appa arrived at Shirdi the next day and hurried to the Masjid. He informed Baba of what all had transpired at the inquiry. Baba heard him out in silence and said, “God is the one who is the doer and the one makes us do action. He is the refuge of the true devotee. Even the impossible becomes possible by his will.”

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There was one Gujarati Brahmin called Megha. He was a wise man. He used to diligently chant the Gayatri mantra regularly. He was well built. His hair was matted and long. Day and night, he would chant “Shiva, Hara Hara.” He was a bachelor who diligently performed all the religious activities daily. He had come to Shirdi with Hari Vinayak Sathe. Megha used to get up before dawn and have a cold water bath. He would apply ash to his body and apply the horizontal arks of the devotees of Shiva to his forehead with sandal paste. He would sit on a deer skin to meditate. His body used to have an otherworldly shine by the dint of his devotional exercises and he looked like a latter day Jalandhara. He would go for the darshan of Sri Sai Baba three times a day to the Masjid. He saw Shiva in Baba. To him it seemed that it was Shiva himself who was ensconced in royal court at the Masjid. So he would chant the panchakshari, ‘Om Namah Shivayah’ while keeping his head Baba’s feet. He would worship the holy feet of Baba with Bilwa leaves said to be a favourite of Shiva. He would also go 5 miles to the distant Godavari River everyday and bring the water from there to perform the abhishek (ritual bathing) of Baba. If any one questioned him; he would say, “Who do you think Baba is? He is that Shiva himself. He has to be bathed only with the water of Godavari. Ordinary water will not do.” Sri Sai Baba was pleased by the devotion of Megha. He presented him with a Shiva ling (the symbol of Shiva) for his regular daily worship. This is the concise story of Megha. The able Sai Maharaj showers his grace on his devotees in the same form that they worship him. Sri Sai Baba’s leelas are wonderful and beautiful. He appears as Shiva to the devotees of Shiva, as Vishnu to the devotees of Vishnu and as Parvardhigar to the Muslim devotees. One the one hand he would look like the Panduranga Vittala standing on a brick and on the other he would look like Sai Baba. His love for his devotees was limitless.

Sai_Baba 11As the days passed, the residents of Shirdi developed hatred towards Sathe because he was collecting all the offerings to Baba in a hundi to use the money for building a Mandir. Just at the time, a silver chariot with silver horses, which was in Sathe’s keeping, was stolen by some thieves. Sathe was the principal trustee. The people of Shirdi suspected Sathe of complicity in the theft. One day one of the residents planned to strike Sathe with an axe on the way. Getting wind of this, his maternal uncle called Sathe and urged him to leave immediately as it was too dangerous for him to stay there. He told Sathe that he could worship Baba wherever he might be. Reluctantly Sathe left Shirdi.

Baba used to ask for Sathe ceaselessly. But Sathe was not there. Baba appeared to be in great distress. Sathe was near and dear to Baba. The devotees felt that Baba was sorely affected by the absence of Sathe.

About this time, the parents of Shyam came to Shirdi with the two-year old child. Shyam’s father had just retired from service and decided to settle down in Shirdi. The boy’s name was Mohan Shyam. The parents called him Mohan, while Baba called him Shyam. The boy was put to school at Shirdi and in due course he completed his studies and received training as a teacher. He was appointed as a teacher at Shirdi. The school adjoined Baba’s room. During the day, Shyam would be teaching at school. There was a ventilator in the wall separating Baba’s room and the classroom. Shyam used to watch Baba at nights through the ventilator. He used to notice Baba talking to himself, getting angry at times, or laughing to himself, or doing other curious things. Baba used to sleep on an eighteen-inch wide plank suspended from the ceiling. Shyam was apprehensive that Baba might fall from his lofty but narrow perch during sleep.
Once he mustered courage to ask Baba while massaging his feet, “Swami! You don’t seem to sleep at all at nights. You are laughing to yourself, or talking. What is the secret of all this?”

“You simpleton! Do you imagine you are the only person about whom I am concerned in this world? There are numerous persons who are praying to me. I am speaking to all of them,” replied Baba. “When I turn my finger, I am turning their minds. When I laugh, I am amused at their follies. These are the things I am doing for my devotees, dear child.”

Shyam prayed to Baba, “Swami! My classes don’t take up much of my time. Let me stay with you during the rest of the time and serve you.”

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At that time there was a woman called Laxmibai who used to cook the food for Baba. Shyam used to go to her and assist her in the preparation of jowar rotis. Baba had great liking for brinjal. Shyam went to Laxmibai to learn how to prepare brinjal dishes. Shyam went on serving Baba in this way and he alone knew the joy he derived from such service.

Sai_Baba feb_18Baba often used to fly into a temper. This was only an outward appearance. Sometimes he used to throw a stick at someone ten feet away. Shyam once asked him, “Swami! You are hurling the stick at the man in such a rage. Supposing something happened to him and he died, will you not get a bad name?” Baba replied sharply, ” You keep quiet! That fellows life is in gods hands. He will die only if god permit him. You better mind your business. Why are you bothering about others? That man will come to his senses only if he sees me in this manner. If I am indulgent they will try to ride the high horse.” Thus, in this way, Baba used to discipline people by threats and harsh words. “It is only with this aim in view I am displaying anger and not for any other purpose.” This secret was revealed by Baba only to Shyam and none else. Baba’s life is really a saga of love and nothing else.

Keeping Shyam near him and allowing him to serve him, Baba spent many years.

nanasahebrasneIn 1917, Baba once called Abdul Baba, Nana Chandorkar, Mahalasapati, Dasganu and others and started asking each of them, “Do you know who you are?” Each of them replied, “I am your Sishya(disciple).” Baba said, “Nonsense! Don’t use that term any longer. I have no disciples in this world. I have countless devotees. You do not recognize the distinction between a disciple and a devotee. Anyone can be a devotee. But that is not the case with the disciple. A disciple is one who carries implicitly the commands of the guru (the preceptor). The mark of the Sishya is total devotion to the preceptor. Only the man who says, ‘I have none in the world other than the preceptor,’ is a disciple. How far have you respected my injunctions? How are you entitled to claim that you are my disciples? Only the one who follows me like my shadow can claim to be my disciple. The devotee is one who prays to the Lord wherever he may be. Hence, there is a big difference between a disciple and a devotee. The disciple and the preceptor are like two bodies with one spirit. The disciple should have no sense of separateness from the preceptor. He should feel, ‘I and you are one.’ There are no such disciples to be found in the world. There are millions of devotees, but no disciples.”

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On hearing this, Shyam was in deep pain. He felt within himself, “Apart from serving at your feet, I have no other concern.” Baba then went into another room and called Shyam inside. “In this entire world, for me you are the only disciple. All others are only devotees.” At that moment, Shyam fell at the feet of Baba, and cried out, “You alone, you alone (are my refuge)!” and breathed his last.

In all his life of over 82 years, Baba had never shed a tear in the presence of devotees. When Shyam passed away, he shed three drops of tears. The devotees present there said, “Swami! Why do you feel so grieved? All are in your hands.” Baba replied, “Dear boys! I am not grieving at all. Almost all his sins had been wiped out already. By the three drops I shed, the remaining of sins (of Shyam) have been washed away.”

All that Baba said or did was for the good of the devotees alone.

One day a group of people came for the darshan of Sri Sai Baba. The first was the son of Govind Chandorkar, Narayana Chandorkar, who was working at the collector’s office at Ahmed Nagar as the Chitnis. He was called Nanasaheb by all. The second was a singer of ballads honouring God called Ramadas of Vayi village. The third was Bapu Nagarkar and the fourth was Kangaokar. They had all arrived at Shirdi on the day before Hanumajjayanti (the birth day of the God Hanuman, the foremost devotee of Sri Rama). They had all come to Shirdi to have the darshan of the divine Sai and to hear his gospel. Ramadas had to sing the ballad of God on the day of Hanumajjayanti at Ahmed Nagar, situated on the banks of the Seena River. He was hurrying the others of the party to leave immediately after the darshan of Sri Sai Baba. He stated shouting for the cart to take them all to the railway station.

Then Baba told Chandorkar, “You have your food first and only then leave.” Nana did not know what to do. He took Kangaokar with him and saw to the food for himself and the others of his party. Ramadas, however, was hurrying them and was insisting on leaving at once for the railway station. Bapu Nagarkar said, “What is your hurry?” Ramadas retorted, “I have to sing the ballad of God tomorrow at Ahmed Nagar. We have spent enough time with this man. Chandorkar is well off, he has no worries about his next meal. If we do not leave now, I will be losing a lot of money. What do we gain by following this Sai Baba? I will not get even a paisa here. Let us go to the railway station immediately. It is now time for the train to arrive. We have in any case accomplished what we have come for.” He prevailed upon Bapu Nagarkar to accompany him and they both started for the station. Chandorkar and Kangaokar stayed on at Shirdi as per Baba’s instructions.

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Baba then said to Nanasaheb, “Have you noticed how people behave? They leave those with them and go away to seek their own selfish interests. That is why we should bring with us those who stay with us till the end of the world as the perfume stays with the flower.”
They all finished their meal. Baba said, “Now you can start. Believe in my words. Do not worry that you will miss the train. There is time yet for its arrival.” Chandorkar and his friend believed Baba. They listened to his advice and after reverentially saluting his feet, started for Kopargaon. As they reached the station, they found Bapu Nagarkar and Ramadas with drawn faces, famished with hunger. They could not find anything to eat at the railway station.
They hung their heads in shame as they saw Nanasaheb Chandorkar. Nana said, “Why, you have still not left for Ahmed Nagar? It seems that your train has still not arrived.” Nagarkar replied, “Today the train is late by three hours. It is our fate to fast and go hungry today. We have received our just desserts as we have not heeded the instructions of that great saint, Sai Baba.” The train arrived and they all boarded it to go to Ahmed Nagar. Sri Sai Baba knows the past, present and the future. His words are never in vain.
Baba one day told Appa, “Some thieves have entered our village. They are not ordinary thieves. Their methods are entirely different. They enter each house and examine it minutely. They only steal the most valuable things from each house. They are such experts in their vocation that one does not even realize that a theft has happened in one’s house. They will first come to your house.
You go to your house and see to its security.” Appa could not understand Baba’s words or their inner meaning. He hired some people to guard his house and he too joined them standing guard though that night. An hour or so after night fall; Appa started vomiting and had diarrhoea. He was afflicted with that dreadful disease- Cholera. His body lost its temperature and he started twisting in agony. His eyes lost focus and protruded. His pulse was not palpable. The villagers saw the condition of Appa and were saddened, losing all hope of his survival.
Appa’s wife, fearing the imminent death of Appa, ran at once to the Masjid to that mountain of kindness and the sole refuge of all in this world. She fell on the Baba’s feet and pleaded with tears streaming from her eyes, “Baba, my husband is in the last stages of his life, please give my husband some Udi along with your blessings. It will save my husband and bring him back from the doors of imminent death. Please save me from wretched widowhood”

Sai_Baba DBaba said, “Oh mother, do not cry. All those who are born have to die, someday or the other. To be born, to live and to die are all decided by the almighty. He is in everything and everywhere. It is not in our hands to change his plans. Who is it that is born? Who is it that dies? Get hold of your self and examine this with dispassion and true knowledge. You will also realize the truth. If the cloth we wear is torn, we throw it aside. We lose whatever liking we had for it too. The all-merciful God has covered the ever living soul with this cloth of a body. That soul is the ever living, infinite, indivisible, attribute less, formless God. Do not show love for the worn out cloth of the body of Appa and try to protect it by applying Udi to it. Do not come in Appa’s way and cause him harm. Let him reach his destination as per his destiny. As I have been talking to you here, he has already left behind the worn out cloth of his body. Do not interfere any more. Appa will achieve salvation. You will not be able to see it with your worldly eye. Let whatever happens happen. Baba consoled her thus and she went home reconciled to Appa’s death. By the time she reached home, Appa was dead.

The next day two or three more people died in the village of Cholera. The villagers were all terrified by this scourge and went to Baba who was their sole refuge. They prayed to him, “Baba, cholera is dancing her dance of death in the village. Do something and get her out of the village. What is the use of having you here if we are all to die by cholera?”

Baba replied, “Seven people have to die in the village. After that cholera will go away from here.” This turned out to be literally true. Seven people died at Shirdi due to cholera. No further deaths occurred. How wonderful is Baba’s knowledge. What he says will happen.

413_Sai_Baba_Painting_sitting_under_moon_thumb[2]Baba had with him an old well baked brick with him. He used to love that brick more than he did his life. He would use it every day as his pillow when he slept. Nanasaheb Chandorkar saw this and said, “Baba why do you use that brick as a pillow? I will have a nice pillow stitched for you. Please throw that brick away.” Baba then replied, “Even if you bring a hundred thousand pillows they will not equal this brick. This was presented to me by my Guru. This is more valuable that the whole world to me. This is my meditation as well as the object of my meditation. Nobody can estimate its value. It is breaks; my life will depart this body. My guru’s feet had touched this brick; that is why I have made it my pillow. He who keeps his head on the lotus like feet of his guru; his shadow is also holy. That is why I keep my head on this brick which touched my guru’s lotus feet. By this I am becoming one who every day keeps his head on his Gurus feet. Nana! You all come and salute me in the mornings. I in turn present all your salutes to my guru. In the manner that the Godavari River takes all the water that joins it and consigns it to the sea, in the same way I consign your salutes to my guru. When I had put this brick at the feet of my guru, my guru who loved me as a mother did her child, laughed with pleasure at my devotion. He said, ‘Well done. In the past Pundaleeka had presented Krishna a brick and asked him to stand on that. Now you are doing me same thing and asking me to put my feet on that. By the dint of the excellence of your devotion, I have to stand steadily on this brick forever. What body is in samadhi, the same body will also be in this brick.’ This is the truth. My Sadguru had commingled with Lord Sri Venkateswara and had become Venkateswara himself. He is now in the form of Lord Venkateswara. Sri Venkateswara’s footprints are on this brick. That is why I call my guru Venkusa (Venkateswara Swami). The power of this brick is beyond compare. Have you now seen what it is?” Nanasaheb Chandorkar and the other devotees heard Baba and prostrated at his feet in devotion. Chandorkar was an ardent devotee of Sri Sai Baba.

1910
One day Baba was sitting near the Dhuni on Divali holiday and warming Himself. He was pushing fire-wood into the Dhuni, which was brightly burning. A little later, instead of pushing logs of woods, Baba pushed His arm into the Dhuni; the arm was scorched and burnt immediately. This was noticed by the servant Madhava, and also by Madhavrao Deshpande (Shama). They at once ran to Baba and Madhavarao clasped Baba by His waist from behind and dragged Him forcible back ward and asked, “Deva, for what have You done this?” Then Baba came to His senses and replied, “The wife of a blacksmith at some distant place, was working the bellows of a furnace;her husband called her. Forgetting that her child was on her waist, she ran hastily and the child slipped into the furnace. I immediately thrust My hand into the furnace and saved the child. I do not mind My arm being burnt, but I am glad that the life of the child is saved.”
On hearing the news of Baba’s hand being burnt from (Shama) Madhavrao Deshpande, Mr. Nanasaheb Chandorkar, accompanied by the famous Doctor Parmanand of Bombay with his medical outfit consisting of ointments, lint and bandage etc. rushed to Shirdi, and requested Baba to allow Dr. Parmanand to examine the arm, and dress the wound caused by the burn. This was refused. Ever since the burn, the arm was dressed by the leper devotee, Bhagoji Shinde. His treatment consisted in massaging the burnt part with ghee and then placing a leaf over it and bandaging it tightly with Pattis (bandages). Mr. Nanasaheb Chandorkar solicited Baba many a time to unfasten the Pattis and get the wound examined and dressed and treated by Dr. Parmanand, with the object that it may be speedily healed. Dr. Parmanand himself made similar requests, but Baba postponed saying that god was His Doctor; and did not allow His arm to be examined. Dr. Paramanand’s medicines were not exposed to their air of Shirdi, as they remained intact, but he had the good fortune of getting a darshana of Baba. Bhagoji was allowed to treat the hand daily. After some days, the arm healed and all were happy. Still, we do not know whether any trace of pain was left or not. Every morning, Bhagoji went throught his programme of loosening the Pattis, massaging he arm with ghee and tightly bandaging it again. This went on till Sai Baba’s Samadhi (death).
Sai Baba, a perfect Siddha, as He was, did not really want this treatment, but out of love to His devotee, He allowed the ‘Upasana’ – service of Bhagoji to go on un-interrupted all along. When Baba started for Lendi, Bhagoji held an umbrella over Him and accompanied Him. Every morning, when Baba sat near the post close to the Dhuni, Bhagoji was present and started his service. Bhagoji was a sinner in his past brith. He was suffering from leprosy, his fingers had shrunk, his body was full of pus and smelling badly. Though outwardly he seemed so unfortunate, he was really very lucky and happy, for he was the premier servant of Baba, and got the benefit of His company.

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People were immensely benefited by having a darshana of Baba. Some became hale and hearty; wicked people were turned into good ones. Kushtha (Leprosy) was cured in some cases, many got their desires fulfilled, without any drops or medicine being put in the eyes, some blind men got back their sight and some lame ones got their legs. Nobody could see the end of His extraordinary greatness. His fame spread far and wide, and pilgrims from all sides flocked to Shirdi. Baba sat always near the Dhuni and eased Himself there, and always sat in meditation; sometimes with and on other times without a bath.
Sai_Baba 12He used to tie a white turban on his head; and wear a clean Dhotar round his waist, and a shirt on his body. This was his dress in the beginning. He started practicing medicine in the village, examined patients and gave medicines. He was always successful, and He became famous as a Hakim (Doctor). A curious case may be narrated here. One devotee got his eye balls quite red and swollen. No Doctor was available in Shirdi. The other devotees took him to Baba. Other Doctors would use ointments, Anjans, cow’s milk and camphorated drugs etc., in such cases. Baba’s remedy was quite unique. He pounded some ‘BEEBA’ (Some Carpus Ana Cardium i.e. marking nuts) and made two balls of them, thrust them on in each eye of the patient and wrapped a cloth-bandage round them (eyes). Next day, the bandage was removed and water was poured over them in a stream. The inflammation subsided and the pupils became white and clear. Though the eyes are very delicate, the BEEBA caused no smarting; but removed the disease of the eyes. Many such cases were cured and this is only an instance in point.

SaiBaba also interpreted the religious texts of both faiths. According to what the people who stayed with him said and wrote he had a profound knowledge of them. He explained the meaning of the Hindu scriptures in the spirit of Advaita Vedanta. This was the character of his philosophy. It also had numerous elements of bhakti. The three main Hindu spiritual paths -Bhakti Yoga, Jnana Yoga and Karma Yoga – were visible in the teachings of SaiBaba.
Another example of the way he combined both faiths is the Hindu name he gave to his mosque, Dwarakamai.
shirdi-baba-dhuniSaiBaba said that God penetrates everything and lives in every being, and as well that God is the essence of each of them. He emphasised the complete oneness of God which was very close to the Islamic tawhid and the Hindu doctrine, e.g. of the Upanishads. SaiBaba said that the world and all that the human may give is transient and only God and his gifts are eternal. SaiBaba also emphasised the importance of devotion to God – bhakti – and surrender to his will. He also talked about the need of faith and devotion to one’s spiritual preceptor (guru).He said that everyone was the soul and not the body. He advised his disciples and followers to overcome the negative features of character and develop the good ones. He taught them that all fate was determined by karma. SaiBaba left no written works. His teachings were oral, typically short, pithy sayings rather than elaborate discourses. SaiBaba would ask his followers for money (dakshina), which he would give away to the poor and other devotees the same day and spend the rest on matches. According to his followers he did it in order to rid them of greed and material attachment.

SaiBaba encouraged charity and the importance of sharing with others. He said: “Unless there is some relationship or connection, nobody goes anywhere. If any men or creatures come to you, do not discourteously drive them away, but receive them well and treat them with due respect. Shri Hari (God) will be certainly pleased if you give water to the thirsty, bread to the hungry, clothes to the naked and your verandah to strangers for sitting and resting. If anybody wants any money from you and you are not inclined to give, do not give, but do not bark at him like a dog.”

MadhavRao_DeshpandeOne day, a Pandit came to Baba and said that his biography should be written. His name was Hemanthpanth. He is the author of ‘Sai Satcharita’ [The gospel of Shirdi Baba’s life]. He entreated Baba to disclose facts about the place of his birth, his parentage, his name and his early life. He could not get any information. Baba did not reveal anything to anyone. But on one occasion, when he was alone with Mahalasapati Baba disclosed his date of birth for him. Mahalasapati was no scholar. He had learnt Rituals to conduct the Puja in the temple. He noted down the date of birth, on a piece of paper. This came into the hands of Hemadpant. With this, he began to write the life of Baba.

We return to final touch stories of Baba.  One day, Baba called Pradhan and asked him to construct a small tank. Pradhan was thus the first to be involved in the building of a Samadhi for Baba.

Sai_Baba It was year 1918. Pradhan’s wife, who was living in her native village, had a dream in which Baba appeared to have passed away. Pradhan was in Shirdi. On waking up, Pradhan’s wife started crying over the passing of Baba in her dream. At that moment she heard a voice in the house declaring, “Don’t say that Baba has died. Say that Baba is in a state of Samadhi.” Samadhi means equal-mindedness. “Life and death are alike. Joy and sorrow, profit and loss are the same. Hence, there is no such thing as death for Baba”—this is what the voice declared.

When she was trying to find out wherefrom this voice came, she received a message from her husband conveying the news of the passing of Baba. That occurred on Vijayadashami day in 1918. Baba Stayed 60 years in Shiridi.
“If a man utters My name with love, I shall fulfill all his wishes, increase his devotion and if he sings earnestly my life and my deeds, him I shall be set in front and back and on all sides. Those devotees, who are attached to me, heart and soul, will naturally feel happiness, when they hear these stories. Believe me that if anybody sings my Leelas, I will give him infinite joy and everlasting contentment. It is my special characteristic to free any person, who surrenders completely to me, and who does worship me faithfully, and who remembers me, and meditates on me constantly. How can they be conscious of worldly objects and sensations, who utter my name, who worship me, who think of my stories and my life and who thus always remember me? I shall draw out my devotees from the jaws of death. If my stories are listened to, all the diseases will be got rid of. So, hear my stories with respect: and think and mediate on them, assimilate them. This is the way of happiness and contentment. The pride and egoism of my devotees will vanish; the mind of the hearers will be set at rest: and if it has wholehearted and complete faith, it will be one with supreme consciousness. The simple remembrance of my name as Sai, Sai will do away with sins of speech and hearing.”

Mangalvar Vrat Katha

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Tuesday is dedicated to Lord Hanuman. In South India , the day is dedicated to Skanda, aka Muruga or Kartikeya. Devotees also listen to Hanuman Chalisa, songs dedicated to the simian deity, on this day.  The Mangalvar Vrat is dedicated to Lord Hanuman. The Mangalvar Vrat is very beneficial to negate all the malefic effects of Mangal (Mars). The Mangalvar Vrat is to be kept for 21 consecutive weeks. On this day Lord Hanuman is worshipped using red flowers, along with wearing of red colored clothes. Along with the Vrat Katha, Hanuman Chalisa is also recited. On this day devotees eat food made from wheat and Jaggery only. Mangalvar Vrat leads to success, happiness, protection and stability in both professional and personal life. It also helps in overcoming the enemies.
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Mangalvar Vrat is observed by those couples who Mangalvar Vrat is observed by those couples who wish to have a son. Other benefits include happiness in the family. People who believe in astrology observe fast to alleviate the harmful effects associated with the planet mangal or mars.

Ritual:

It is a whole day fast. Devotees who undertake Mangalvar fast only take a single meal usually consisting of any food made of wheat and jaggery. Most Hindus keep the fast for 21 Tuesdays without a break. Mangalvar Upvaas is to satisfy Hanuman and Mangal (Mars) that rules the day, and from which it takes its name. Mangal is considered a trouble maker and the fast is observed to ward off evils and problems that strewn our path and make way for happiness. The underlying belief is that Lord Hanuman will help his devotees to overcome difficulties in life especially those created by the intervention of ‘Mangal graha’ or Mars. Also, couples desirous of having a son, too, observe this fast stringently.

Lord Mangal (Mars)

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Lord Mangal (Mars) is one of the nine planets or navagrahas. He is also known by the names Angaraka and Kuja. He is considered the son of Prithvi or Bhumi, the Earth Goddess.He is associated with strength, valor, and courage. Lord Mangal is the protector of dharma (righteousness), and the purpose of life.
Ganeshpuranam: Once the elder brother of Hiranyaksh had kidnapped Prithvi Devi (Earth). To get Prithvi Devi released from him, God appeared in the form of ‘Varah’. The God killed Hiranyaksh and Prithvi Devi was rescued. At that time Prithvi Devi was very pleased with the God and she wished to marry him. At the time of Varahavtar, the glowing of God was like having thousands of suns in the sky. It was unbearable. Then the God appeared in the beautiful and original form to fulfill the wishes of Prithvi Devi. They married and lived alone for one year. Mangal was born to them.Shiva Purana- Chap 2.71 : Once when Lord Shiva was engrossed in ‘deep meditation’ upon his abode Mount Kailash, three drops of perspiration originated from his forehead and fell down on the earth. From those drops manifested a very beautiful infant, who was of reddish complexion and who had four arms.
The child was handed over to the earth goddess, Bhumi for upbringing by Lord Shiva. The child was named Bhaum as he was nurtured and brought up by ‘Bhumi’ (earth).
When Bhaum grew up, he went to Kashi and did a tremendous penance to please lord Shiva. Lord Shiva blessed him by granting him ‘Mangala loka (the Abode of Mangala), which was superior even to the ‘Shukra loka’ (the Abode of the god of Venus – Shukra). The same ‘Bhauma’ is established in the solar system by the name of Mangala (the planet Mars).
Lord Mangal has four hands, and carries a trident and mace as weapons. He wears red ornaments. Worshiping Lord Mangal frees one from skin illnesses, debts, and poverty. The gemstone of Lord Mangal is the red coral, and his day is Tuesday. He is the guardian of the south direction.
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Vrat Katha – I

Once there was a Brahmans son. He was married at an early age. He went to his father-in-laws village to get back his wife. His in-laws welcomed him heartily and gave him best dishes to eat.

The boy said to his father-in-law, Please send your daughter with me. My mother is unwell. There is nobody to look after her.

That is correct, said the father-in-law, but we have not made full preparations to offer her clothes and cash. The boy said, Our family is not so down-and-out as to accept such offers all the time. You send your daughter with me. The boys mother-in-law raised another objection and said, My daughter is a newly-wed and she is very beautiful. She will wear gold ornaments. Who will guarantee her safety during the journey?
The boy said, I am brave enough to guard her. See my muscular body. The mother-in-law said, It is not the muscular body but the mind which guards us. The boy said, Do not consider me without mind. The father-in-law and the mother-in-law argued for some time with the son-in-law and finally agreed to send their daughter with him.
The young husband and wife both started their journey for the village. It was Tuesday. Tuesday is devoted he god Mars. He is the commander of this day. The Mars saw the Brahmans beautiful wife. He was dazzled to see such a beauty. He knew witchcraft. He disguised himself as a Brahmans son and said to the boy, She is my wife. Who are you to accompany her? Give her to me, otherwise I will kill you.

The Brahmans son felt bewildered at the sight of an identical man like him. He said, You are a ghost. You are a cheat. She is my wife. How can I give her to you? The woman would not differentiate between the two. She stood there puzzled. Some cow herds noticed their quarrel. They went to them and asked about the cause of their quarrel.The Brahmans son said She is my wife. This man is a cheat. He wants to take away my wife under a false disguise. He is not the man who has married this woman. I am her real husband. The Mars who was in the guise of Brahmans son said, She is my wife and I am her real husband. The cow-herds felt confused at their claims. One of the cow-herd asked the woman, Who is your real husband?

The lady said, I was married when I was very young. I have cast my look at my husband for the first time, after long years. I cannot differentiate between the two. The matter became still complicated. One of the cow-herds sensed the gravity of the situation. He could see that one of them was a spirit. He knew how to deal with such spirits. He said, Bring an earthen pot with a spout. I will hand over this lady to the real husband. They arranged a Kuchcha Karva or a pot with a spout. The cowherd said, This lady belongs to that person who can enter this pot through its spout.
The Brahmans son said, This is injustice. I cannot enter this pot. The cowherd said, Then you are a cheat. You would have to abide by my order. The Brahmans son kept mum. He was helpless. The Mars said, She is my wife. I can enter this pot through its spout. The clever cowherd said, if you enter this pot, she will be your wife.
The Mars was in the form of a spirit. He knew the craft of changing his body into any shape. He entered the pot through the spout. The cow-herd dosed the spout with a tight cork. The Mars was imprisoned in the pot. He could not come out from it. To make his escape impossible, the cowherd dug a deep hole in the ground and put that earthen pot deep into it and filled the hole up. The Brahmans son was happy. He thanked the cowherd for his intelligence and wisdom.
Since that day, it has been a belief that nobody should dig earth on Tuesday so that the devil spirit of the Mars remains inside the earth for ever.

Vrat katha – II

Tuesday is devoted to Lora Hanuman. The devotees listen to this story before breaking their fast in the afternoon. The wrestlers do not massage their bodies on this day to avoid hairfalllng. Some wrestlers observe Tuesday as a rest day.
Once there was an old lady. She used to observe Tuesday fast. She enjoyed all sorts of prosperity. Her daughter-in-law used to give her four loaves on every Tuesday. She used to go to the Hanuman Temple and offered two loaves there. The remaining two she ate herself and felt satisfied.
Once the daughter-in-law asked her children to follow their grandmother and to keep a watch over her activities. Her grandsons noticed that their grandmother offered two loaves to Lord Hanuman and broke her fast with the remaining two. They reported the matter to their mother. Their mother thought that the old lady was wasting two loaves and decided to cook two loaves only.
VratOn the next Tuesday, the daughter-in-law gave her only two loaves. The old lady went to the Hanuman temple arid offered one loaf to Hanuman and broke her fast with the remaining one. Her grandsons noticed her and reported the matter to their mother. Their mother thought that the old lady was wasting one loaf and decided to give her one loaf only.
The old lady accepted one loaf on the coming Tuesday and went to the Hanuman temple. She offered half a loaf to lord Hanuman and broke her fast with the other half. Her grandson noticed it and reported again to their mother. Their mother thought that the old lady was wasting her food at familys expense. She decided not to give her any loaf on Tuesdays.
The old lady went to the Hanuman temple empty-handed. She had nothing to offer. Lord Hanuman appeared before her as a young boy and said, O, old ma, what ails you? The old lady related the whole story to the young boy. The young boy said, Why dont you erect a cottage of yours behind this temple? Take me as your son. I shall arrange food for you. What is the use of living with a family which does not care for its elders!
The old lady agreed and started living in the cottage. Everyday the young boy would bring a mug full of milk and a lump of crushed bread mixed with sugar and butter (churma) for her. Her life was now very happy and peaceful. The old ladys daughter-in-law became poorer and poorer day-after-day. Unwanted quarrels broke out in the house due to poverty. They had little to eat. One day she said to her children, Go to your grandmother and observe what she does.
The children went to their grandmother. The old lady welcomed them. She shared milk and Churma with them and asked them to visit her everyday. The children went back to their house and related the whole thing to their mother. She was surprised to know that the old lady was hale and hearty instead of growing weak. She realised her mistake and asked her husband to bring her back.
Her husband said, Why should I go? You are responsible for our sufferings. You make quarrels in the family everyday. You forced her to leave this house. You were jealous of her even for meager meals. This house lost its prosperity the moment she left us. You have no regards for your elders and their noble deeds.
The lady said, Let all of us go to her. We shall convince her that she should come back. Her husband agreed and they went to the old lady. The young boy was sitting with her and serving her food. The old ladys daughter-in-law fell at the feet of her mother-in-law and begged pardon of her for her misdeeds. The old lady said to the young boy; Should I accompany them as they have realised their mistake? The young boy said, Yes, you may. If you face any difficulty, you may come back.
The old lady returned to her family. She observed Tuesday fasts and her daughter-in-law never objected to her giving half of her food to Lord Hanuman. Prosperity again visited their house and they lived a happy life.
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Vrat Katha – III

Unwanted suspicion, doubt or misbelief creates unhappiness in the family. Unshakeable faith in one god brings happiness. A chaste life is above suspicion.
Once there lived a Brahman couple. They were issueless. So their life was very unhappy. The Brahman went to the jungles to appease Lord Hanuman. He would pray for a child in his prayers. His wife used to observe fasts on Tuesdays to placate the Lord. She used to take her food on Mondays only after offering Prasaad to Lord Hanuman.Once she observed some special fast for the whole day. So she could not offer Prasaad to Hanuman. She was very sorry for it and felt guilty. She decided to observe a fast till the coming Tuesday. She said to herself that she would take her meals only after offering Prasaad to Hanuman.She became weak and fragile and even fainted due to the long fast. Hanuman took pity on her and appeared before her in the guise of a child. Hanuman said, I bless you with a beautiful son. He will always serve you, day and night. He then disappeared after blessing the lady.
Fortunately, the lady got a beautiful son. She named him Mangal. The Brahman returned home after some months. He saw a handsome child playing in his courtyard. He became suspicious and said to his wife, Whose child Is this? Have you indulged in adultery? The woman said politely, My dear husband, I am a chaste lady. I used to observe Tuesday fast in your absence to please Lord Hanuman. He has blessed me with this child. Please believe me. The Brahman kept mum but deep in his heart, doubts began to curl up every moment. The lady was helpless. One day the Brahman was going to take his bath at some nearby well. The lady told him, Please take Mangal alongwith you. He is quite grown-up. He will fetch water for your bath. He will also rub your back.
The Brahman agreed and took the boy alongwith him. He thought it would be a good occasion to push him into the well and to get-rid of a sinful child for good. As the boy was to fetch water, the Brahman pushed the boy into the well and returned home. To her great surprise, the woman noticed that the Brahman did not have wet dhoti on his shoulders. She said, Have you taken your bath? The Brahman said, Yes.
The lady said, Please give me your wet dhoti to enable me to spread it on the string. The Brahman was nonplussed. He had guilty conscience. He murmured some words and tried to leave the house. The wife said, Where is my Mangal? Where is my Mangal? O! Mangal, appear before my eyes if I am a cheste lady and you are my true son.
To the great surprise of both the wife and the husband, Mangal appeared at the door. He embraced his mother and touched his fathers feet. That might Lord Hanuman appeared before the Brahman in his dreams and said, O! poor creature, I blessed you with a son, and you suspect your wife of adultery. You must feel sorry for it.
The Brahman realised his mistake. His wife regularly observed fasts on Tuesdays. Thereafter they led a happy life. It is said that whosoever reads or listens to this story and keeps regular fasts Lord Hanuman protects him from air evils and bestows all happiness.

Benefits:

  •  For health, wealth and overall wellbeing
  •  For protection, relief from disease and good health
  •  For blessings of a child
  •  For blessings of Lord Hanuman

Puja Service Includes: Ganpati invocation mantra, Invocation mantras of all major deities, Dhyaan, Katha of Mangalvar, Aarti, Pushpaanjali, Prasadam.

Seven Days and Seven Fasts

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As per Hinduism, Fasting (Vrat) is usually observed by devout Hindus for the achievement of an oath. It is not only meant for materialistic gains, but also for harmony and peace within. As per Hindu mythology, each day of the week is dedicated to one or more Hindu Gods. Upvas (Vrat) begins with the sunrise and ends at sunset. On the day of fasting, the native can be observed eating only after the evening prayers. Every fasting has its own procedures and importance.

Seven Vrat

MONDAY FASTING:

Monday (Somavaar) is dedicated to Lord Shiva. Known to be the father of Lord Ganesha, no puja can ever start without Ganpati Pujan (worship of Lord Ganesha). After seeking blessings from Ganpati, Lord Shiva & Goddess Parvati are worshipped on this day. Devotees, who observe fast on this day, are blessed with the fulfillment of all their dreams and desires. This fast is commonly kept by young girls (unmarried ladies) who wish to be blessed with a husband like Lord Shiva. There are three ways of observing this fast:

  • Simple Monday fast,
  • Som Pradosh vrat,
  • Solah somavaar.

It is believed that even Goddess Parvati observed the fast of Solah Somavaar with deep devotion for Lord Shiva.

How To Begin The Monday Fast?
For a fruitful result, one should start Monday fast from Shukla Paksha of Savan month (June-July) with a clean heart. One can keep either the simple Monday fast or the Solah Somvars as per one’s determination.
After taking bath, one should sit facing Northeast. Clean the idol with Ganga jal, and light a diya after applying tilak on the idol. Remember that the kumkum is never offered to Lord Shiva. It is advised that only chandan (sandalwood) should be used for Lord Shiva and kumkum for Goddess Parvati. Offer incense sticks, diya, five type of seasonal fruits while chanting the mantra “OM NAMAH SHIVAY” for 108 times. The devotees hear Somvar Vrat katha on the day of fasting in a hope that their wish would be fulfilled.
Preferred Color: Blue

TUESDAY FASTING:

Tuesday (Mangalvaar) is dedicated to Mahavir Hanuman, who was a great devotee of Lord Rama. It is considered to be a very strict fast. This is generally kept by males for immense flow of success, strength and fast-recovery from illness. Besides this, this fasting is considered for Mangal (Mars), as Lord Hanuman helps nullify the ill-effects of the troublesome planet, Mars.

How To Begin Tuesday Fast/Vrat?
The observer should take bath and seek blessings from Lord Hanuman. The person should worship Lord Hanuman by lighting a diya while offering red flowers. A tilak of sandalwood paste must be applied on the idol of Lord Hanuman. Chant Hanuman Chalisa for 108 times. The observer should eat only after sunset. Salt should be avoided.
Preferred Color: Red

WEDNESDAY FASTING:

This day is dedicated to the planet, Mercury, and Lord Vithal, who was an avatar of Lord Krishna. In Budhvaar Vrat, Lord Krishna and Lord Vishnu are worshipped. Wednesday is considered a good day for starting a new venture and educational activity. It helps maintain harmony in family life. Couples are advised to observe fast together on this day for a blissful married life.

How to keep Wednesday Fast?
On this day, everything offer by the devotee to the planet Mercury must be green-colored. Food must be eaten only after reading the Budh katha in the evening. After the katha is over, Lord Shiva must be offered the leaves of Bael tree. Keeping this fast with devotion can end all family disputes as well as troubles.
Prefered Color: Green

THURSDAY FASTING:

Lord Brihaspati represents money; hence, the observer should worship Goddess Lakshmi and Lord Vishnu for monetary gains and mental peace. Some people keep this fast for removing obstacles of their married life. The people who experience weak Jupiter in their horoscope must keep this fast with full dedication to seek blessings and prosperity.

How to observe Thursday fast?
One should start the fast on the first Thursday of Shukla Paksha. The observer should keep fasts for 16 consecutive Thursdays (Brihaspativaar). On the fasting day, one should take bath before the sunrise. One must avoid using soap or washing the head on this day. Later, the observer should sit with the face towards Northeast, and worship Lord Vishnu and Brihaspati Grah by offering yellow flowers, sandalwood paste and a yellow dish as prasadh.

The devotee should hear Brihaspati katha in evening, and should give away yellow colored things such as clothes as ‘daan’ (donation). The observer should eat only yellow dishes without any salt on this day.
Preferred Color: Yellow

FRIDAY FASTING:

Shukravaar (Friday) is devoted to Goddess Durga. It is also dedicated to Mata Santoshi, an incarnation of Goddess Durga. The observer must keep 16 vrat (fast), known as Solah Shukravaar Vrat, to get what they desire. Women keep this fast for strength and physical & mental fitness. If the Shukra (Venus) is weak in one’s horoscope, he/she is advised to keep this fast, in order to nullify the harmful effects of the same.

How To Observe The Friday Fast?
On Friday, women fast for Santoshi Ma. They should, therefore, avoid eating any sour food. Fast should be for at least sixteen Fridays. On completion of these sixteen fasts, they must invite girls in odd number such as 7 or 11 (the girls should be of 16 years) for Kanya Pujan and should offer gifts and food to them.
Preferred Color: Blue or White

SATURDAY FASTING:

Saturday (Shanivaar) fast is observed to nullify the harmful effects of the planet Saturn (Shani). Shani represents cruelty. If the native is suffering from any evil effects of Shani, he/she should donate black colored items such as black cloth, metal, black gram, black til, etc. Generally, one should donate mustard oil and a coin in iron bowl, after having a glimpse of their shadow in it.

How to observe the Saturday Fast?
Many people worship Peepal tree in the evening by lighting diya beneath it and tying threads around the bark. People also worship Lord Hanuman on Saturdays because Hanuman rescued Lord Shani from Ravana during Ramayana. Since then, the black-skinned Lord Shani respects Lord Hanuman, and never harms His devotees. The devotees should eat only once in a day, that too after offering prayers in the evening. The evening food must contain any black colored food item, such as sesame oil, black gram, mustard etc. If possible, avoid salt on your fasting day.
Prefered Color: Black

SUNDAY FASTING:

Lord Sun (Surya Narayana) is worshipped on this day. He is known to fulfill the desires of a person. This fast helps clean one’s aura and improves his status in society. Besides this, devotees can observe this fast for overcoming any problems related to skin.

How To Observe The Sunday Fast?
One should take bath early in the morning. Take a copper kalash (pot), with kumkum or sandalwood paste inside it, and a red flower. Pour Holy water inside the kalash and offer the water to Surya devta by pouring it outside, facing towards the Sun. Remember to chant the Gayatri mantra three times while offering the water. Devotees are advised to eat one meal in a day, before sunset. Avoid eating salt, oily or fried items.
Preferred Color: Red

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7 DAYS FASTS – SAPTVAAR VRAT

There are seven days in the week. A different god governs each day. Depending upon the purpose of the fast, one fasts accordingly. A common reason for fasting is to get over the malefic effect of a particular planet or god, or to achieve something through a blessing of the god. For each day there is a different procedure, different ways to pray to God, and also a different katha to read or arti to sing. However one resolves to fast, one must understand the details of different fasts.

A fast on Sunday is devoted to Surya – the sun

Eye problems or those pertaining to heat and skin may affect one. Blessings from Surya enable one to receive honour and fame and achieve success over enemies. Food is eaten once in the day before sunset. Food must not be eaten after sunset. It must be free of salt and oil. It must not be tamsik. One must offer prayers to Surya and read or listen to the prescribed katha. Only then one must eat. To appease Surya one should wear ruby. When inclined to give charity one must give wheat, red pulses, jaggery, or metals like gold and copper or ruby amongst gems. The best time to give charity is at sunset.

A fast on Monday is devoted to Chandrama – the moon

Prayers are offered to Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati. Since they had a long, happy married life, fasting on Mondays helps one find a suitable marital partner. There are three kinds of fasts observed on Mondays. The routine fast observed on a Monday is the saumya pradosh – the fast to seek pardon for a fault, and a fast for 16 Mondays. The procedure to be followed is similar, but in each case the katha to be read or heard is different. Food is eaten once in the day. Cereals are permitted. After prayers to Shiva and Parvati one must read or hear the appropriate katha. To appease Chandrama one must wear pearls and silver. When inclined to give charity, one must give white things like rice, white clothes, conch shells, silver or pearls.

A fast on Tuesday is devoted to Mangal – the planet Mars

It is believed that fasting for 12 Tuesdays helps overcome the malefic effects of this planet. All kinds of obstacles are overcome. It also brings fame and honour. Prayers must be offered to Hanuman. Use of red clothes and red flowers is auspicious. Food prepared of wheat and jaggery must be eaten once in the day. After prayers to Hanuman one must read the katha.

A fast on Wednesday is devoted to Budh – the planet Mercury

One must preferably eat green things once in the day. One must pray to Lord Shiva and follow it by reading or hearing the katha. To appease Budh one must wear emerald in gold. When inclined to give charity one must give moong (green gram – Phaseolus mungo), kasturi (musk), blue clothes, gold, copper and five gems.

A fast on Thursday is devoted to Brihaspati – the planet Jupiter

It promotes greater learning and prosperity. Prayers must be offered to Brihespeshwar Mahadev, followed by reading or hearing the katha. One must preferably wear yellow clothes and use yellow sandalwood. Food must be eaten once. One must include yellow pulses in the meal. To appease Brihaspati one should wear topaz in gold. When inclined to give charity one should give yellow things like turmeric, salt, yellow clothes, rice, yellow pulses, gold and topaz.

A fast on Friday is devoted to Shukra – the planet Venus

The procedure for this fast is similar to that of Monday. It is preferable that food is eaten once a day. It must include white preparations like kheer (rice porridge) or rabri (milk preparation). To appease Shukra one must wear mani (a gem) in silver. Those inclined to charity must give rice, white clothes, a cow, ghee, diamonds and gold.

A fast on Friday is also devoted to Santoshi Maa

She is the daughter of Sri Ganesh and blesses one with happiness and contentment. Prayers are offered to her followed by katha and arti. Food must be eaten once. This is a strict fast and nothing sour or acidic must be eaten or offered to anyone else. It is customary to fast for 16 Fridays. On the final day, young boys are fed.

A fast on Saturday is devoted to Shani – the planet Saturn

The effect of Shani is harsh and lasts for a long time. Therefore this fast is observed. Shani is fond of all kinds of black things like black clothes, black peas, black sesame, iron and oil. Prayers are offered to Shani followed by the katha and arti. To appease Shani one must use sapphire and iron. When inclined to give charity one should give black things like an iron vessel with oil, an umbrella, a black shoe, black clothes, black sesame and black peas.

Fasting in Hinduism

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Upavasa or Vrata- the Fasting in Hinduism

Upavasa (उपवास)- which means fasting in Sanskrit is made up of two terms- ‘Upa’ (उप) means ‘near’ and ‘vasa’ (वास) means ‘to stay’. Together they mean ‘staying near God’ while observing fast. The science of fasting has been dealt with in the Vedas (वेद) and Shastras (शास्त्र). According to these ancient Hindu scriptures, fasting is a method of purification that helps man in his mundane as well as spiritual life.

Fasting is also called called ‘Vrata’ (व्रत). Vrata is a broader term than Upavas. Vrata stands for a religious practice that is undertaken to carry out certain obligations for achieving divine blessings. It may include Upavasa or fasting along with other physical obligations like not sleeping or not speaking for a certain period of time, or taking baths at particular holy river on earmarked auspicious days and so on.

Fasting

Temples are decorated with lights, there is continuous chanting, ‘Aartis/Bhajans’(hymns) are sung and people listen to holy scriptures being read out. Even in small villages, someone will read these scriptures in the evening, when other villagers will gather to listen. Many Hindus will also go on group pilgrimage tours around India and visit popular religious temples and places. Some Hindus will not cut their hair or shave over the month of Shravan. They will spend time reading holy books such as the Ramayan, Mahabharat or Shrimad Bhagvad Gita.

People make generous donations to charities, temples, the poor, beggars and other worthy causes. They will cook for the poor and hungry even though they are fasting themselves. By doing these good deeds they feel that they will be rewarded, if not in this life then in the next life. There are some variations in the way people observe the fast. Some might only eat one vegetarian meal in the evening whilst others will not eat any food at all other than fruit/nuts and milk. Many Hindus will also fast all year round on certain days of the week, depending on their beliefs.

On Monday, they will fast for Lord Shiva and his wife Goddess Durga Statue. Some people will only have milk and lumps of crystalised sugar. In the morning, unmarried women will go to Lord Shiva’s temple with offerings of flowers, ghee, incense, special leaves, milk, honey, sugar and Tulsi leaves. They will gently pour lots of milk over Lord Shiva’s Lingam. It is believed that by offering these things to Lord Shiva and Goddess Durga, they will find their dream husband. Goddess Parvati (Durga) herself, is said to have done a lot of ‘tap’ (deep meditation) in the Himalayas to win the affections of Lord Shiva. Therefore, many unmarried women believe that by following Goddess Parvati’s example, they will also be rewarded in the same way.

On Tuesday, Hindus will fast for ‘Ambe Maa’ (also known as ‘Durga’) and ‘Hanuman Ji’(The Monkey God, Lord Ram’s devotee). They will read Ambe Maa’s Aarti and visit temples to offer their prayers.

On Wednesday, Hindus will fast for ‘Bahuchara Mataji’and similarly read the Aarti and visit temples to offer their prayers.

On Thursday, Maha Laskshmi (Lord Vishnu’s wife), Gayatri Mata, or Bhuvneshvari Mata is worshipped. Many people will fast on this day so that it will bring good health, wealth and help to achieve your aims in life. People will read prayer/story books and carry out joint family prayers in the morning and evening.

On Friday, people will fast for Santoshi Ma. Many women will not eat any food that is sour. They will fast for a minimum of sixteen Fridays. Then, at the end, they will invite many girls (an odd number) under the age of sixteen to share food with them as well as giving gifts, so that their fasting bears fruit. They will offer their prayers, chanting to Santoshi Maa in the hope that contentment and happiness will come about in their family.

On Saturday, Hindus will fast for Hanuman Ji and Sunny Dev. They will read the Hanuman Chalisa and go to Hanuman Ji’s temple offering special flowers and oil. They will pour oil all over a ‘murti’(statue) of Hanuman Ji’s head. They will read stories about Hanuman Ji and the Ramayan. Fasting on Saturdays is usually observed by men (on Tuesdays and Thursdays men will fast as well as women).

On Sunday, Hindus will fast for all ‘Mata Jis’(goddesses). People will fast to keep all the Mata Jis happy. They will visit Mataji’s temple. By fasting on Sunday, it is believed that you will get cosmic energies from the goddesses (known as ‘Shakti’).
In addition to weekly fasting, people might also fast on particular religious days/festivals. Hindus fast for a variety of reasons. One is from an astrological perspective. Some people believe that certain stars in the galaxy at certain times of the year can be harmful to individual families. They might bring bad health, misfortune and other evil spirits on earth. To ease the effect of these stars, people will fast and offer their prayers, to make them psychologically stronger and able to cope with such misfortunes. Another reason for fasting is based on what their stars say (from their birth). This is recorded in the Janma Patrika (a book that records the position of the galaxy’s stars at the time of birth). Many people will fast as guided by the astrologer/priest.

There are many advantages to fasting. From a health point of view, by giving your body (stomach) a rest, your indigestion system improves and generally you will become healthier. Sleeping is improved by having a lighter stomach. Fasting also brings about a ‘feel good’ factor. The second advantage is that it helps you save on time. The time saved can be offered for charity work or doing good deeds for others. It saves money by not having to shop for food or cook. Any money saved can be donated to good causes. Fasting can be good for your health as long as it is not too excessive.

Names and technical terms may vary according to the Indian dialect and Hindu tradition. For example, ‘Laskshmi’ may be more familiar to some readers as ‘Lakshmi’, ‘Ramayan’ as ‘Ramayana’, ‘Mahabharat’ as ‘Mahabharata’, and ‘Bhagvad Gita’ as ‘Bhagavad Gita’.

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Different Kinds of Fasting

  • Hindus fast on certain days of the month such as Purnima (full moon) and Ekadasi (the 11th day of the fortnight).
  • Certain days of the week is also marked for fasting, depending on individual choices and on one’s favorite god and goddess. On Saturday, people fast to appease the god of that day, Shani or Saturn. Some fast on Tuesdays the auspicious day for Hanuman, the monkey God. On Fridays devotees of the goddess Santoshi Mata abstain from taking anything citric.
  • Fasting at festivals is common. Hindus all over India observe fast on festivals like Navaratri, Shivratri and Karwa Chauth. Navaratri is a festival when people fast for nine days. Hindus in West Bengal fast on Ashtami, the eighth day of the festival of Durga Puja.
  • Fasting can also mean abstaining from taking certain things, either for religious reason or for the sake of good health. For instance, some people refrain from taking salt on particular days. It is common knowledge that excess salt and sodium causes hypertention or elevation of blood pressure.
  • Another common kind of fast is to forego taking cereals when only fruits are eaten. Such a diet is known as phalahar.

 

Fasting : A devotion to the lord

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Vrata or Upavasa – the Fasting in Hinduism

Upavasa (उपवास)- which means fasting in Sanskrit is made up of two terms- ‘Upa’ (उप) means ‘near’ and ‘vasa’ (वास) means ‘to stay’. Together they mean ‘staying near God’ while observing fast. The science of fasting has been dealt with in the Vedas (वेद) and Shastras (शास्त्र). According to these ancient Hindu scriptures, fasting is a method of purification that helps man in his mundane as well as spiritual life.

Fasting is also called called ‘Vrata’ (व्रत). Vrata is a broader term than Upavas. Vrata stands for a religious practice that is undertaken to carry out certain obligations for achieving divine blessings. It may include Upavasa or fasting along with other physical obligations like not sleeping or not speaking for a certain period of time, or taking baths at particular holy river on earmarked auspicious days and so on.

Fasting

fasting-1In Hindu mythology several fasts have been recommended with the objective of accomplishment of various tasks. These fasts cover all aspects of life including health, wealth, property, issues, love life, marital bliss, destiny, profession, inflow of money, eradication of sins, overcoming obstacles, attainment of all round prosperity, material comforts and spiritual success and so on and the list of objectives is comprehensive. In this section we have incorporated all types of fasts (Vratas) by observing which one can gratify his or her ambitions. We are giving the method of observing the fasts to cater the needs of readers. Vrata/ Fasting/Upvas work on the same principle the soul of which is self-control and for attaining that the entrance gate is control over temptation of taste.

The Sanskrit word for fast is ‘upa-vaas’, which means staying close to God. The original concept of fasting entailed a deviation from the normal life style and devoting one day to introspection. The fasting person was supposed to distance himself from the trivia of day to day life and think only about God. As any worldly pleasure would distract him from this purpose, he was supposed to follow a simple routine. Hence, rich food was avoided and a simple diet was taken to sustain the body. The intention was neither to starve the body nor to indulge it.

There are several interesting, mythological and historical stories behind Indian fasts which are matchless examples of our culture and rituals. On the day of fasting one should practice Bramhcharya (to stay away from sexuality and greed), self-control, solitude, silence and introspection. Fasting has been acknowledged in all religions all over the world. Fasting is the act of willingly abstaining from some or all food and in some cases drink, for a period of time. Depending on the tradition, fasting practices may forbid sexual intercourse, masturbation, as well as refraining from eating certain types or groups of food (eg. Meat). Medical fasting can be a way to promote detoxification.

Fasting is worshipped and admired in all religions all over the world because of its manifold benefits. In this section we shall be describing the significance and method of observing various important fasts along with Mantra, Vrata Katha and Aarti in Indian tradition.

Bhagwad Gita on Fasting

Lord Krishna, in Bhagwad Gita, tells Arjuna,

नात्यश्नतस्तु योगोऽस्ति न चैकान्तमनश्नतः।
न चातिस्वप्नशीलस्य जाग्रतो नैव चार्जुन।।

“O Arjuna, Yoga (the unity of individual consciousness with the ultimate consciousness) never occurs for those who eat too much or too little and also for those who sleep too much or too little.”

Great Sayings

  • No form of asceticism is superior to fasting – Mahabharata
  • By doing fasting mind becomes introversive, sight turns clean and body remains light – Kaka Kalelkar
  • Fasting is the most effective technique of curing all diseases. – Dr. Adolf Mayer
  • Fasting has unlimited power in it because psychological strength works behind it. Fasting can be done by the powerful people not by the weak. – M.K. Gandhi
  • Any work done without faith is an evil. That work neither turns out to be beneficial in this world nor in the next world after death – Srimadbhagvadgita
  • Fasting is the best solution to get rid of sexuality and lust – Srimadbhagvadgita

Fasting

Fasting in Other Religons

Fasting for religious and spiritual reasons has been a part of human custom since pre-history. It is mentioned in the Bible, in both the Old and New Testament, in the Mahabharata, in the Upanishads and in the Qurans. In the Bahai Faith, fasting is observed from sunrise to sunset during the Bahai month of Ala ( March 2 to March 20). Buddhist monks and nuns following the Vinaya ruler commonly do not eat each day after the noon meal, though many orders do not enforce this. This is not considered a fast, but rather a disciplined regime aiding in meditation. In Islam, fasting for a month is an obligatory practice during the holy month of Ramjan from dawn till sunset. In Jainism fasting is done to decrease desire and passion. Self-starvation by fasting is known as Sallekhana and is supposed to help shed Karma according to Jain philosophy. Fasting for Jews means completely abstaining from food and drink, including water, tasting food, taking medication or even brushing teeth is forbidden. Observant Jews fast on six days of the year.

In nature cure, one of the very important tools for health and disease cure is fasting. Many people are learning the trick of curing their colds, headache, nervous spells and other acute troubles by missing a few meals or taking a short fast. It is the simplest and the most efficient way of relieving the overloaded and food poisoned system. Some doctors believe that pure water fasting can not only detoxify cells and rejuvenate organs, but can actually cure such diseases and conditions as cardiovascular disease, rheumatoid arthritis, asthma, high blood pressure, diabetes, colitis, psoriasis, lapis and some other autoimmune disorders when combined with a healthy diet. They believe that Fasting is Nature’s Restorer’. Many therapies, like Ayurveda and homeopath, acknowledge the importance of diet in the treatment of illness, and impose restrictions on beverages such as tea and coffee, and some non- vegetarian items. Nature cure, or naturotherapy, is virtually founded on the food principle, and considers fasting an imperative in the cure of chronic ailments. In natural medicine, fasting is seen as a way of cleansing the body of toxins, dead or diseased tissues, and giving the gastro-intestinal system a rest. Such fasts consist of either water only, or fruit and vegetable juices.

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Why Do We Fast?

Most devout Indians fast regularly or on special occasions like festivals and Ekadashis. On such days they do not eat at all, eat once or make do with fruits or a special diet of simple food.

Fasting in Sanskrit is called upavaasa. Upa means “near” + vaasa means “to stay”. Upavaasa therefore means staying near (the Lord), meaning the attainment of close mental proximity with the Lord. Then what has upavaasa to do with food?

A lot of our time and energy is spent in procuring food items, preparing, cooking, eating and digesting food. Certain food types make our minds dull and agitated. Hence on certain days man decides to save time and conserve his energy by eating either simple, light food or totally abstaining from eating so that his mind becomes alert and pure. The mind, otherwise pre-occupied by the thought of food, now entertains noble thoughts and stays with the Lord. Since it is a self-imposed form of discipline it is usually adhered to with joy. Also every system needs a break and an overhaul to work at its best. Rest and a change of diet during fasting is very good for the digestive system and the entire body. The more you indulge the senses, the more they make their demands. Fasting helps us to cultivate control over our senses, sublimate our desires and guide our minds to be poised and at peace.

Fasting should not make us weak, irritable or create an urge to indulge later. This happens when there is no noble goal behind fasting. The Bhagavad Gita urges us to eat appropriately – neither too less nor too much – yukta-aahaara, and to eat simple, pure and healthy food (a saatvik diet) even when not fasting.

Mangalvar Vrat Katha : मंगलवार व्रत कथा

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भारत में हनुमान जी को अजेय माना जाता है. हनुमान जी अष्टचिरंजीवियों में से एक हैं. कलयुग में हनुमान जी ही एक मात्र ऐसे देवता हैं जो अपने भक्तो पर शीघ्र कृपा करके उनके कष्टों का निवारण करते हैं. मंगलवार भगवान हनुमान का दिन है. इस दिन व्रत रखने का अपना ही एक अलग महत्व है.

मंगलवार व्रत की विधि

सर्व सुख, रक्त विकार, राज्य सम्मान तथा पुत्र की प्राप्ति के लिये मंगलवार का व्रत उत्तम है. इस व्रत में गेहूँ और गुड़ का ही भोजन करना चाहिये. भोजन दिन रात में एक बार ही ग्रहण करना ठीक है. व्रत 21 सप्ताह तक करें. मंगलवार के व्रत से मनुष्य के समस्त दोष नष्ट हो जाते है. व्रत के पूजन के समय लाल पुष्पों को चढ़ावें और लाल वस्त्र धारण करें. अन्त में हनुमान जी की पूजा करनी चाहिये. तथा मंगलवार की कथा सुननी चाहिये. मान्यता है कि स्त्री व कन्याओं के लिए यह व्रत विशेष लाभप्रद होता है. उनके लिए पति के अखंड सुख व संपत्ति की प्राप्ति होती है.

मंगलवार व्रत की कथा : Tuesday Fast Story ( Shri Hanuman Vrat katha in Hindi)

एक ब्राम्हण दम्पत्ति के कोई सन्तान न हुई थी, जिसके कारण पति-पत्नी दुःखी थे. वह ब्राहमण हनुमान जी की पूजा हेतु वन में चला गया. वह पूजा के साथ महावीर जी से एक पुत्र की कामना प्रकट किया करता था. घर पर उसकी पत्नी मंगलवार व्रत पुत्र की प्राप्ति के लिये किया करती थी. मंगल के दिन व्रत के अंत में भोजन बनाकर हनुमान जी को भोग लगाने के बाद स्वयं भोजन ग्रहण करती थी. एक बार कोई व्रत आ गया. जिसके कारण ब्राम्हणी भोजन न बना सकी. तब हनुमान जी का भोग भी नहीं लगाया. वह अपने मन में ऐसा प्रण करके सो गई कि अब अगले मंगलवार को हनुमान जी को भोग लगाकर अन्न ग्रहण करुंगी.

वह भूखी प्यासी छः दिन पड़ी रही. मंगलवार के दिन तो उसे मूर्छा आ गई तब हनुमान जी उसकी लगन और निष्ठा को देखकर अति प्रसन्न हो गये. उन्होंने उसे दर्शन दिए और कहा – मैं तुमसे अति प्रसन्न हूँ. मैं तुझको एक सुन्दर बालक देता हूँ जो तेरी बहुत सेवा किया करेगा. हनुमान जी मंगलवार को बाल रुप में उसको दर्शन देकर अन्तर्धान हो गए. सुन्दर बालक पाकर ब्राम्हणी अति प्रसन्न हुई . ब्राम्हणी ने बालक का नाम मंगल रखा .

कुछ समय पश्चात् ब्राहमण वन से लौटकर आया. प्रसन्नचित्त सुन्दर बालक घर में क्रीड़ा करते देखकर वह ब्राहमण पत्नी से बोला – यह बालक कौन है. पत्नी ने कहा – मंगलवार के व्रत से प्रसन्न हो हनुमान जी ने दर्शन दे मुझे बालक दिया है. पत्नी की बात छल से भरी जान उसने सोचा यह कुलटा व्याभिचारिणी अपनी कलुषता छुपाने के लिये बात बना रही है. एक दिन उसका पति कुएँ पर पानी भरने चला तो पत्नी ने कहा कि मंगल को भी साथ ले जाओ. वह मंगल को साथ ले चला और उसको कुएँ में डालकर वापिस पानी भरकर घर आया तो पत्नी ने पूछा कि मंगल कहाँ है.

तभी मंगल मुस्कुराता हुआ घर आ गया. उसको देख ब्राहमण आश्चर्य चकित हुआ, रात्रि में उसके पति से हनुमान जी ने स्वप्न में कहे – यह बालक मैंने दिया है. तुम पत्नी को कुलटा क्यों कहते हो. पति यह जानकर हर्षित हुआ. फिर पति-पत्नी मंगल का व्रत रख अपनी जीवन आनन्दपूर्वक व्यतीत करने लगे. जो मनुष्य मंगलवार व्रत कथा को पढ़ता या सुनता है और नियम से व्रत रखता है उसे हनुमान जी की कृपा से सब कष्ट दूर होकर सर्व सुख प्राप्त होता है .

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Mangalvar Vrat Katha

Tuesday fasting, or Mangalvar Vrat, is dedicated to Lord Hanuman and to Mangal Grah. In Hinduism, every fast has one or more story associated with it and those people observing the Vrat read or listen to the story on the fasting day. There are several stories associated with Tuesday fasting. This particular Mangalvar Vrat Katha is associated with Lord Hanuman.

Mangalvar Vrat is the fast or Upwas is the vrat for Hanuman ji. It is a falahaar vrat and most of people do not eat anything salt on this fast. After whole day fast with Falahaar, end of the day fast is ended with food without salt offered to Hanuman ji as bhog. The same food is taken to end the fast end of the day after puja. Mangalwar vrat is kept for happiness, strength, both physical and moral, and quick recovery from illness. It also helps in overcoming the enemies.

मंगलवार व्रत की कथा : Tuesday Fast Story ( Shri Hanuman Vrat katha in English)

hanumanOnce there lived a Brahman couple. So their life was very unhappy. The Brahman went to the jungles to appease Lord Hanuman. He would pray for a child in his prayers. Both the husband and wife each Tuesday Hanuman worshiped in a temple. His wife used to observe fasts on Tuesdays to placate the Lord. She used to take her food on Mondays only after offering Prasad to Lord Hanuman.

Once she observed some special fast for the whole day. So she could not offer Prasad to Hanuman. She was very sorry for it and felt guilty. She decided to observe a fast till the coming Tuesday.

She said to herself that she would take her meals only after offering Prasad to Hanuman. She became weak and fragile and even fainted due to the long fast. Hanuman took pity on her and appeared before her in the guise of a child. Hanuman said, I bless you with a beautiful son. He will always serve you, day and night. He then disappeared after blessing the lady.

Fortunately, the lady got a beautiful son. She named him Mangal. The Brahman returned home after some months. He saw a handsome child playing in his courtyard. He became suspicious and said to his wife, Whose child Is this? Have you indulged in adultery? The woman said politely, My dear husband, I am a chaste lady. I used to observe Tuesday fast in your absence to please Lord Hanuman. He has blessed me with this child.

The Brahman kept mum but deep in his heart, doubts began to curl up every moment. The lady was helpless. One day the Brahman was going to take his bath at some nearby well. The lady told him, Please take Mangal along with you. He is quite grown-up. He will fetch water for your bath. He will also rub your back.

The Brahman agreed and took the boy along with him. He thought it would be a good occasion to push him into the well and to get-rid of a sinful child for good. As the boy was to fetch water, the Brahman pushed the boy into the well and returned home. To her great surprise, the woman noticed that the Brahman did not have wet dhoti on his shoulders.

The lady said, Please give me your wet dhoti to enable me to spread it on the string. The Brahman was nonplussed. He had guilty conscience. He murmured some words and tried to leave the house. The wife said, Where is my Mangal? Where is my Mangal? O! Mangal, appear before my eyes if I am a cheste lady and you are my true son.

To the great surprise of both the wife and the husband, Mangal appeared at the door. He embraced his mother and touched his fathers feet. That might Lord Hanuman appeared before the Brahman in his dreams and said, poor creature, I blessed you with a son, and you suspect your wife of adultery. You must feel sorry for it.

The Brahman realized his mistake. His wife regularly observed fasts on Tuesdays. Thereafter they led a happy life. It is said that whosoever reads or listens to this story and keeps regular fasts Lord Hanuman protects him from air evils and bestows all happiness.

 Mangalvar, or Tuesday, in Hindu religion is dedicated to Lord Hanuman and Lord Ganesh. Mangalwar takes its name from the Mangal or Mars who rules the day and is considered to be a trouble maker in astrology, and the fast is to ward off the harmful effects of Mangal. Here is a general idea on how to observe Mangalvar Vrat? The Vrat is observed mainly by couples who want to have children and by those people who are suffering from Mangal graha dosha. Tuesday is generally dedicated to Lord Hanuman in most regions. Please note that in Maharashtra, Tuesday is mainly dedicated to Lord Ganesha. In some regions, the day dedicated to Ganesh is Wednesday. In Kerala, Hanuman is worshipped mainly on Thursday. How to observe Mangalvar Vrat? After self purification and bathe on Tuesday morning deities first take the blessings of Lord Ganesh by offering red colored flowers. Next Lord Hanuman is worshipped. Lamp is lit and red flowers are offered to Lord Hanuman. A mark is made on the forehead using red colored sandalwood paste. After prayers Hanuman Chalisa or Hanuman Ashtak is chanted. For Ganesha it is Ganesha Ashtotram or any other prayers dedicated to Lord Ganesh. The fast is from sunrise to sunset. A single meal is taken on the day and is usually made of jaggery. Salt is avoided. The food prepared for Lord Hanuman is shared by the devotee. Red is the color of the day. Red colored clothes are worn and red colored flowers are offered to the deity. In the evening the offering made to deity is a food prepared using Jaggery. Before breaking the fast, a story associated with Mangalvar Vrat is listened to or read. There are several stories associated with Mangalvar Vrat. In some regions, people avoid digging up earth or plastering the home. Oil massages are also avoided on the day. Hanuman is the patron deity of the wrestlers and they observe a rest day. They also do not massage their body to avoid hair falling.

Mangalvar, or Tuesday, in Hindu religion is dedicated to Lord Hanuman and Lord Ganesh. Mangalwar takes its name from the Mangal or Mars who rules the day and is considered to be a trouble maker in astrology, and the fast is to ward off the harmful effects of Mangal. Here is a general idea on how to observe Mangalvar Vrat? The Vrat is observed mainly by couples who want to have children and by those people who are suffering from Mangal graha dosha.

Tuesday is generally dedicated to Lord Hanuman in most regions. Please note that in Maharashtra, Tuesday is mainly dedicated to Lord Ganesha. In some regions, the day dedicated to Ganesh is Wednesday. In Kerala, Hanuman is worshipped mainly on Thursday.

How to observe Mangalvar Vrat?

After self purification and bathe on Tuesday morning deities first take the blessings of Lord Ganesh by offering red colored flowers.

Next Lord Hanuman is worshipped. Lamp is lit and red flowers are offered to Lord Hanuman. A mark is made on the forehead using red colored sandalwood paste. After prayers Hanuman Chalisa or Hanuman Ashtak is chanted. For Ganesha it is Ganesha Ashtotram or any other prayers dedicated to Lord Ganesh. The fast is from sunrise to sunset. A single meal is taken on the day and is usually made of jaggery. Salt is avoided. The food prepared for Lord Hanuman is shared by the devotee.Red is the color of the day. Red colored clothes are worn and red colored flowers are offered to the deity.

In the evening the offering made to deity is a food prepared using Jaggery. Before breaking the fast, a story associated with Mangalvar Vrat is listened to or read. There are several stories associated with Mangalvar Vrat. In some regions, people avoid digging up earth or plastering the home. Oil massages are also avoided on the day. Hanuman is the patron deity of the wrestlers and they observe a rest day. They also do not massage their body to avoid hair falling.

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5 Tempting Rakhis to Gladden Your Affectionate Bro!!

One of the most awaited festivals of India. Raksha Bandhan is falling on August 18 in 2016. This pious occasion is devoted to the eternal and most loving bond between a brother and sister. It is a carnival of Rakhi thread, sweets, and gifts, get together, and lot of joy and happiness everywhere. Sisters all across India start Rakhi shopping many days before the day of occasion and market places are jam packed during these days.

Compilation of premium Rakhi types from this collection, which are as:

Designer Rakhi

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If you need not to look upon budget to get a special Rakhi for your loving brother, get a stunning designer Rakhi for him. Designer Rakhi is positively unique type of Rakhi which would certainly be conspicuous on your brother’s wrist. These premium Rakhis are exceptional in terms of designs, appearance and availability.

Sandalwood Rakhi

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Sandalwood Rakhi or Chandan Rakhi is a traditional type of Rakhi which is quite popular. These Rakhi are mad of genuine Sandalwood pieces crafted in shapes of beads or other attractive shapes to embellish the base of Rakhi. At times sandalwood is crafted in shapes of many deities such as Ganesha, Laxmi, Shiva or other consecrated  symbols such as Om and Swastika. These Rakhis are cherished for their spectacular ethnic appearance and natural pleasant aroma.

Silver Rakhi

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Silver is a glossy metal known for its calming effects. A sacred rakhi made of silver is recognized for its attractiveness & peaceful sentiments emotionally involved to it. An ideal combination of conventional and contemporary zest, Rakhi not remain as a pious thread but later it will become a stunning piece of jewelry for a brother by his sister.

Golden Rakhi

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Tying a rakhi thread on your brother’s wrist not only an ordinary thread, but it is a thread of love, delight and royalty too. Gold signifies grace and royalty that come out of a rakhi made from this precious metal. Golden Rakhi marvelously designed out of gold can also be a thoughtful gift for brother. Gold Coin Rakhi, Golden Bracelet Rakhi, Rakhi with Golden Chain and many more alluring Rakhis comes under Golden Rakhi.

Fancy Rakhi

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Fancy Rakhis are gaining enormous popularity Rakhis these days. The alluring adornment, bead work, pearls, stones, gems, diamonds and other ornamental items used in such Rakhis have given an eye-catching appearance to these Rakhis.   A fine array of fancy Rakhis in plenty of designs as well as colors combinations available in the market, choose a best fancy Rakhi for your dearly loved brother and let it compliment your brother’s wrist.

After work, is what determines your future!

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You finish work at 6 pm, go to bed at 12 midnight.  Within these six hours, how do you spend them?
Watching TV?

In fact, the activities you do between 6 am and 12 midnight,the importance of it is beyond your imagination.
Too many people believe that, your career is determined by the 8 hours of hard work and effort you put at work,
and your future and career progression depend on the boss and the company.

After work, is what determines your future! Spend one hour per day doing these 5 things and your life will change forever!

But the reality is that for most people, this thing, you are on your own…..

Read on…

“Cultivation”, it’s forever dependent by yourself.
If you found yourself not progressing in life,
you cannot blame and put the responsibility on your company for not grooming you.

1. What you do every night is important

My major in college was marketing, but I expect to become a designer. So I practiced day and night,
picking up some freelance work to improve my design skills. It took me a long time.
When I became a boss, I no longer need to involve myself in design work,
So I went back to the Marketing field.

Every day, when my children are sleeping,I began learning to gain more knowledge, this again took me a long time,
But I begin to realise my returns.

If I rely on my working hours to gain skills,then I will never have become a creative director and a product manager,
or like today, teaching MBA students on Marketing.
What I rely on, is myself giving myself “lessons”. And the most successful people I knew, walked the same path as I am.

I have a friend who is a History graduate, but he is interested in technical sales, In the day, he does telemarketing, at night he learns how to code,
Finally, he became the vice president of sales in a startup company. Now, he’s a CTO.

I have another friend, he received a degree in political science. But he’s very interested in entrepreneurship.
he learnt a lot of knowledge on how to start up a company, eventually, he founded a company and sold it,
Now he has reaped the rewards.

For them, what they do between 6 pm till 12 midnight,is what determined their future.
Clearly, we need to balance life and work.

If you have a wife and children, every night, you have to stay with them. Even if you are single, you also need a reasonable allocation of time to go to the gym, to meet with friends, or be alone to meditate and so on. Of course, watching movies, playing games is good.
But there are things you do not need to do.

For example, watching the new season of a Netflix drama, 14 hours per week watching television (This is the average amount of time watching television). The time spent playing the game Candy Crush. Or spending time stalking your high school alumni on Facebook,
it does not seem to be good.

So what should you do?

2. Read more, anything will do!

My college mentor was born in Alabama, A poor African family. He was admitted to West Point Military Academy, and he became the first person in the family to go college.
Before going to Havard for his MBA, he’s a trained officer. When I met him, he has already developed his career in the city of Colorado Springs.

I asked him, what’s his biggest success?

He replied, because he kept the habit of reading, and he never stopped.
He believed that if you want to get what you want in life, knowledge is the key.

He often asked his interviewees what book are they reading now, the excellent ones can give an answer immediately.
Reading can give you a good headstart, this is often what your peers cannot obtain.
Compared to others, you are more likely to know other industries strategies and tactics, and that may be helpful to your company.

You can transfer your knowledge within the organization, create new possibilities for your company.
Moreover, your conversation topics will become more interesting.

Anthony Robbins said:
“If you spend one hour a day to learn about a topic, a year later, in this regard,
the knowledge you gain will be more than 99.999% of the world’s people.”

Even if you have 30 minutes every night, each week you can easily read a book.
You may not be an expert, but I promise, you’ll know more than what your peers know.

3. Do some projects

You can apply the knowledge learnt to real work scenario, this is only an ideal state.
If your company did not give you this opportunity, create opportunities for yourself.
You can do some volunteer projects. They can bring you fame.

Working with a team, you’ll understand how things work.
In the practical application of the industry, and how it ultimately affect actual customers.
You’ll learn how to perform the task and meet deadlines, and get feedbacks on what you are doing,and benefit from it.

When you are not strong enough, these experience may not have any value to you.
But you are still a novice. these experiences are far more valuable than the miserable pay you are getting.

If you can really convince others of your pockets of fruits of labour,
Then go try it. But do not let these private jobs affect your work.

4. Actively build your connections

In your career path, a strong network of connections will make everything accelerate.
If you have not set up your own personal connections, you’ll need to divide a portion of your time to do this.

A strong network of relationships, can enable you:
contact smart friends, and learn their opinions get information and knowledge that are difficult to obtain
help the company look for more potential partners or income generating opportunities
Go get to know your work colleague or boss…..

If you are an entrepreneur, your network connections will be your early customers,
your staffs are a source of capital rather than go home, or going to a bar,
you should find some inner circles.

There are many small groups which are highly relevant to your career.
You should try to integrate into these circles.
Every week, you can drink coffee together with new friends, go drinking or have breakfast.

You can also look into everyone’s career developments on LinkedIn.
And establish a network with mentors in those professional industries.
They may be your next job employer, who knows?

Your connections will be your most powerful asset in the workplace.
Since you have time to watch “The Voice of China”,
you have time to build a social network.

5. The CHANGE of your LIFE starts TONIGHT

6 pm to 12 am, you go home, though physically and mentally tired, you are free to do anything and do not have to take orders from others.
During this time, you can switch off like switching off your computer at your workplace, switch off your brain.

But you can also do something, make you smarter, stronger, have a wider network of people.
From the start tonight, take an hour a day to do these things, I guarantee that after a year,

Your career, and life will change.

Powerful Bruce Lee Quotes

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Bruce Lee is one of my idols. Bruce Lee was a martial artist, film director, producer, screenwriter, philosopher and actor. Bruce Lee is widely considered to be one of the most influential martial artists of the last century. Up to this day he is considered as a legend and his philosophy continues to live through the martial art that he created Jeet Kune Do and through his writing.

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  1. Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.

  2. Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them.

  3. I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.

  4. If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of.

  5. A wise man can learn more from a foolish question than a fool can learn from a wise answer.

  6. If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.

  7. I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.

  8. Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.

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  9. Notice that the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind.

  10. If you spend too much time thinking about a thing, you’ll never get it done.

  11. The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.

  12. Take things as they are. Punch when you have to punch. Kick when you have to kick.

  13. A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough.

  14. As you think, so shall you become.

  15. Showing off is the fool’s idea of glory.

  16. To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.

  17. Real living is living for others.

  18. It’s not the daily increase but daily decrease. Hack away at the unessential.

  19. Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.

  20. Be happy, but never satisfied.

  21. “The doubters said,  “Man can not fly,”  The doers said, “Maybe, but we’ll try,”

  22. And finally soared  In the morning glow While non-believers Watched from below.”

  23. Don’t fear failure. — Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.

  24. If you don’t want to slip up tomorrow, speak the truth today.

  25. Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.

  26. A good teacher protects his pupils from his own influence.

  27. For it is easy to criticize and break down the spirit of others, but to know yourself takes a lifetime.

  28. The More we value things, the less we value ourselves.

  29. Life’s battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster man. But sooner or later the man who wins, is the man who thinks he can.

  30. Those who are unaware they are walking in darkness will never seek the light.

  31. All knowledge leads to self-knowledge.

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  32. The idea is that flowing water never goes stale, so just keep on flowing.

  33. Preparation for tomorrow is hard work today.

  34. ‎The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus.

  35. The possession of anything begins in the mind.

  36. If I tell you I’m good, probably you will say I’m boasting. But if I tell you I’m not good, you’ll know I’m lying.

  37. Remember no man is really defeated unless he is discouraged.

  38. Practice makes perfect. After a long time of practicing, our work will become natural, skillful, swift, and steady.

  39. Do not allow negative thoughts to enter your mind for they are the weeds that strange confidence.

  40. Put ‘going the extra mile’ to work as part of one’s daily habit.

  41. Never trouble trouble till trouble troubles you. I’ll not willingly offend, nor be easily offended.